Edgar wrote:
Quote:We know that someone with an unwanted pregnancy has the operation, aware that the fetus does not have the development that makes it fully human.
Edgar, I just don't agree with this, and it's because I've talked to a lot of women, friends of mine who have had abortions, as well as young women I've worked with who were in the midst of making the decision, and they all have to deal with the emotional repercussions of whatever decision they come to for years afterward. And they all say that they do know that what they're terminating is human and it's a life. Because, if it's not human, what is it? And that's what always comes back to haunt them. No matter how they've rationalized it at the time, and even if they're able to see after the fact, that yes, they made the right decision for their life at the time, but they still grieve the person that might have been, because medically and in fact, a clump of cells that divides and multiplies is either a tumor or a living, growing being.
Quote:We know the law has always wavered, according to those who serve and interpret it. We also know abortion would not end if the supreme court outlawed the practice.
This is true. But I'm always reminded of Leonard Cohen's lyrics:
"Destroy another fetus now
We dont like children anyhow
Ive seen the future, baby
It is murder"
So what does it say about us and our society if we condone it?
I know people make mistakes and get in situations they didn't plan. I have no negative or judgemental opinion about any woman who's had an abortion. I have a lot of friends who have, and some who have had more than one. I can see how it might look like the best and sometimes only thing to do for some people in certain situations.
But I think it's important, especially for the women and young girls who find themselves in the situation, to be honest about what is happening, before they make the decision. Because at some point in their lives, usually when they have their first wished for child, the truth always does hit them like a brick wall, and it's sad to see them grapple with something they wish they'd looked at differently or hadn't done.
I'm still pro-choice though - but more pro birth control and pro adoption.