It's about the other, my brother, and I am not being flip.
There is something in all of us which scans the world and says "This is like me/This is not like me." The stuff that is like me is okay, the stuff that is not like me is the other, and is always suspect until proven okay. We start scanning about as soon as our eyes focus and the information is stored deep down in our brains. It's the basis of our sense of security, a defense mechanism which, as we mature, we rethink and challenge and either keep or discard.
White racists, racists of every stripe for that matter, are easy to spot. They usually spout their stupidity. (And get their funding pulled by RNC in Arizona recently), it's the hidden, the secreted, the (I hesitate to use this word but it's right) unconscious racist who is hard to get a handle on. Over time with our sensor/scanner we get a sense of who we are and who is the other, but mature people are able to live, work, play with, cheer for, and be bossed by any number of people who are not like them at all. That's how we make a society work.
But deep down, even those mature people are living with the sense that these others are not like them, but it isn't always something they are aware of, it's just there, waiting to come out.
I have a friend who is the most liberal, open minded, socially adept person I know or have ever known. We were talking about "24" and she said something odd or what I thought was odd. She said that no matter how she tried she couldn't believe a certain character was President. Now, the character was decisive and bold, a leader who knew who he was, but able to see his own faults and make compromises. What was not to like?
She just couldn't put her finger on it.
And if you asked her, and millions of other white people, if she would vote for a black candidate for President, she'd say Yes. Why?
Because the question has no real weight and the answer no real cost.
There has been a lot of discussion about what's a lie and what's just bullshit and I hope you won't think I'm trying to bullshit you here when I say they are not lying to the pollster, they are not even thinking about their answer. They are mouthing the proper -everybody gets along - catchphrase, they are being social. But in the dim light of the voting booth all the factors come floating up and if the single voter cannot see past the things that make the candidate
unlike him or her, that voter will vote for the thing
most like him or her.
It's not racism, it's the other, it's an unchallenged unconscious defense mechanism.
Joe(or maybe we are all bigots)Nation