Let's hear from all the men out there!!

I've already identified what I'm looking for. What I'm curious about is this... Are my expectations realistic? Maybe I'm being a little misunderstood here. Just looking for some male perspectives.

CJ and I agree sometimes, more often than not, and appreciate each other generally. This time I think she totally nailed it, and left me laughing while agreeing. I might even save that post to print.

Please ignore anything Francis says. He is French and has no idea what goes on in the head of a real man.

Allow me.

Real men, such as myself, have no specific thoughts in their head. By that I mean there is no clear image because we do not think of one thing only but rather our heads our filled with a carnival of images, a phantasmagorical whirlwind of items on the agenda, i.e., breasts, thighs, a recently slaughtered village, the smell of napalm in the morning, a football sailing through the air on a crisp autumn day, another breast or two jiggling around in a seductive fashion, a brand new nail gun, the smell of hot roofing tar, the brief glimpse of the neighbor lady's derriere as she plants some flowers, the intense pleasure of switching the channel when one comes across Wrestlemania, watching the water race toward you as you sit on the front of a boat, the simple beauty of a tree, another breast, and, and perhaps most importantly, the sight of your dog trotting toward you with an ice-cold can of beer in its mouth.

Gustav, I appreciate your honesty, quite honestly I think it realistic that men think that way.

the more inside information you have the better you can play the game. I'm not into playing games but would like to understand if men in general are capable of commitment,loyalty and true love.