Is this wrong?

So, would you think the same way I did?

To go to a strip club where one of the dancers is a girl you have known since she was 13, (THIRTEEN!) and - in front of her own MOTHER - pay her one dollar to "grind your face"... That would be creepy if it were not obvious that you made it all up, probably while masturbating.

My conclusion is that you are what students of Internet behaviour call an "Attention seeking troll". That evening you describe never happened, except in your very sick imagination. I expect you derive sexual pleasure from fantasizing about young girls, and your post above is linked to that.

He didn't pay her a dollar to grind his face. He just gave her a dollar. The grinding was the girl's idea. She is obviously very comfortable with her sexuality (and you obviously aren't).

I have only been to a strip club once, and it wasn't for me, and never gave out any money like that...but it sounds a perfectly reasonable, if not partly expected thing to do.

I think you're taking out your own teenage sexual frustrations on this guy. You sound ridiculous.

What's "behaviour"?

Anyone would have felt awkward being grinded while her mom was watching. But the girl knew this, right? In the mom was up for going also. It's clearly not a big issue for them.

So I went out for Happy Hour/a farewell drinkfest for a couple of guys that was their last day at work today. The idea came up to go to Pharoah's (a local strip club). While discussing, a lady in my dept. said that she's game... because her daughter works there. I asked if she was a bartender or a shotgirl... turns out that she's a dancer. So, I'm thinking...sweet, she's always been pretty cute. However, I've known her since she was about 13 or something.

Anyhow, I went, and decided to stay until she went on. She was **** hot... and I went to the stage, gave her a buck and she grinded my face. Not that I didn't like it, I just felt really weird and strange having that done by someone I've known for a while.

So, would you think the same way I did?

I went to the stage, gave her a buck and she grinded my face.

stuh505 wrote:
I have only been to a strip club once, and it wasn't for me, and never gave out any money like that...but it sounds a perfectly reasonable, if not partly expected thing to do.

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Then you are as tacky as the original poster

Didn't say it was 'harmful'!

I would make no such moral judgements on anybody...

It seems the poster is trying to excuse HIMSELF for going, that's what I find strange...

'I went to a strip club, but not like others do, and I didn't do all the things they do'

T'aint nobodies business if anybody goes to a strip club.

You read me wrong, gargamel, I do not 'frown' on anything like that!

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It seems the poster is trying to excuse HIMSELF for going, that's what I find strange...

Jeremiah wrote:

So, would you think the same way I did?

I would not feel like you did, because I would never DO what you did.

The mildest criticism I could make is that your middle name must be "Tacky".

But there is worse to come.

To go to a strip club where one of the dancers is a girl you have known since she was 13, (THIRTEEN!) and - in front of her own MOTHER - pay her one dollar to "grind your face"... That would be creepy if it were not obvious that you made it all up, probably while masturbating.

My conclusion is that you are what students of Internet behaviour call an "Attention seeking troll". That evening you describe never happened, except in your very sick imagination. I expect you derive sexual pleasure from fantasizing about young girls, and your post above is linked to that.

She is 18 so what is the problem.......?

Jeremiah wrote:

She is 18 so what is the problem.......?

You tell us, you're the one who felt uncomfortable with it!