Well now here is my advice.
As a clean cut all North American boy I worked my way up from a closet
ogler /
stalker to IMHO, one of the world's most renown 'Sexologists'.
Four phone calls a day is excessive. Visit your local cop shop and voice your concerns to the Sarge in charge.
Better to be safe than sorry. Who knows if this guy is just love struck or has a sinister history?
I know this is an older thread, but I'm glad I saw this update.
When dealing with a stalker, you must cut off all contact with him, do not answer the phone when it's him calling, and do not take the time to tell him yet again not to contact you.
In an extreme case, if someone continuously calls 150 times and the phone isn't answered, he will try 151 times.....if you answer the phone that time and talk to him/her, the stalker will realize...."I only have to call this person 150 times to talk to her."
Eventually, with no contact whatsoever, they will give up, hopefully before they make that many calls.
Each time you respond to this person, you are setting the process back to zero.
Read the book, "The Gift of Fear"
