roxanne
a fetish does not have to be deviant in nature.
it simply means being sexually aroused by a particular part of a person or an object that may or may not even have a sexual connection to it.
Really, you sound like some grade school kid that's trying to shock people by saying the word "boobies"
really, your talk of whips and chains and whatnot...boring...
I personally think it's interesting to find out what non-traditional body parts a person finds attractive, without assuming they are hiding some "naughty secret"
so your fetish is enjoying saying "shocking" things about sex....hey, that's fair...sounds normal to me, unless you're saying it to a child....and as long as you know that chances are the people you're saying your naughty things to aren't really that scandalized.
"Oh MY! A threesome! I'm all blushing!