Hi Crushed,
Good to see you back.
Did you have a chance to read that article? Good stuff in there.
For now, I'll give you three words of advice:
Kegels, kegels, kegels.
yeah, we both read that article. I also found another excellent, excellent website with a lot of information that we both read and it helped a lot. If anyone else out there ever comes across this thread because they are having simalar issues, I strongly suggest both you and your partner sit down and read every page(mostly all the pages under the orgasm section) on this website together!
http://www.the-clitoris.com/
crushed:
its called 'womens pleasure' by Rachel Swift.
Hope it helps xxx
I've looked at this thread twice and have now decided to answer it. In the 1960s, women were told that multiple orgasms were normal and unless you were able to climax several times in a row, you were a sexual failure.
I write you because the blame was put upon the woman and not her partner.
I think there probably is no average, no normal. A woman friend, now about 55 to 57 years old, told me that she did not think that she ever had an orgasm. She wondered whether this should concern her.
I didn't think it should. I also don't think that an orgasm is necessary for sexual satisfaction.
Dump her. Find a better liar and fake.
I've had 12 orgasms in 5 hours....does that count?
Pardon my frankness, but I no longer have these human needs. I was unwillingly weaned and have subsequently, chemically, rid them from my system.
Wanna go play with my Glock?
That's what you get for not liking her cookies, cj.
Wow, after seeing this on here and bypassing it until tonight (I'm really bad at advice of this sort - I'm even squeamish reading it), I have just one question:
How is it possible that a devoted husband (in the O department) could go this many years UNAWARE that she has not been O'ing?
I mean, you sound like you're really into her and all that - I would have assumed you'd have been in tune with her and her body.
Quote:get a Hitachi Magic Wand to "awaken" a sleeping libido and actually teach her how to have an orgasm.
Doesn't this "Magic Wand" give off electric sparks of some sort?
cjhsa wrote:Pardon my frankness, but I no longer have these human needs. I was unwillingly weaned and have subsequently, chemically, rid them from my system.
Wanna go play with my Glock?
Have you got a "Magic Wand"?
sozobe wrote:
For now, I'll give you three words of advice:
Kegels, kegels, kegels.
Two words of advice: "Magic Wand".
dadpad wrote:
Ps Try outdoor sex, a change is as good as a holiday :wink:
Wait for a giant snow storm in Maine and then go outdoors with the "Magic Wand".
Are you selling Magic Wands, Miller, by any chance?
