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Obama is against gay marriage.

 
 
CoastalRat
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 12:31 pm
Setanta wrote:
CoastalRat wrote:
I'm patiently waiting for any of the liberals on here to step up and admit that Obama is a bigoted homophobe for believing that marriage is between a man and a woman. After all, I have been repeatedly referred to in the same manner even though my views are much the same as his appear to be. I too would support a contract/civil union for gays that would extend most if not all of the rights the government allows for married couples. Yet Debra, the many reincarnations of Harper and others still insist I am a bigot and a homophobe. Maybe if I change my name to Obama and become a democrat my views will be granted a measure of tolerance that democrats claim to be famous for. Naw, they'll probably just point at me and say something about a wolf in sheep's clothing. (emphasis added)


The portions i've highlighted have a point. It appears that you insist that all "liberals" here can be condemned for the actions of "Harper and others"--but you don't name the others, or otherwise claim that you have been so treated by all "liberals" here. Even if you named "others" who were allegedly guilty of such behavior, you'd only have demonstrated that Harper and those named others had done this, not all liberals. That's quite a broad brush you're painting with there.


I did not mean to imply that all liberals on here think that all who hold my opinion are bigoted homophobes. I'm sure many do not think so, it's just hard to believe that when few seem willing to jump in and object when someone from their political side of the fence is making the accusation. I doubt you could go thru the entire Homophobic topic and find much in the way of any liberal voicing the opinion that someone who opposes gay marriage is not necessarily a homophobe or a bigot.

But as I said, I did not mean to imply that all think this way. Speaking in absolutes is always absolutely stupid in my humble opinion.
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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 12:32 pm
FreeDuck wrote:
How about a slightly heated liberal? Lukewarm liberal? Toasted liberal? Well, only after 5 o'clock.


I'll drink to that. Drunk
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McGentrix
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 12:35 pm
FreeDuck wrote:
CoastalRat wrote:
I'm patiently waiting for any of the liberals on here to step up and admit that Obama is a bigoted homophobe for believing that marriage is between a man and a woman. After all, I have been repeatedly referred to in the same manner even though my views are much the same as his appear to be. I too would support a contract/civil union for gays that would extend most if not all of the rights the government allows for married couples. Yet Debra, the many reincarnations of Harper and others still insist I am a bigot and a homophobe. Maybe if I change my name to Obama and become a democrat my views will be granted a measure of tolerance that democrats claim to be famous for. Naw, they'll probably just point at me and say something about a wolf in sheep's clothing.


Well, I don't know about others, but anyone who supports civil unions would not be someone I would consider bigoted or homophobic. To me it's all wordplay anyway. Marriage, civil union, it's all the same to me. But then again, I only think of it in terms of the legal system which is where I would have thought that it matters. And since I was just called a flaming liberal on this very thread, I feel qualified to answer.


It's just wordplay to you, but to others it is not. If it is merely wordplay, please tell the Gay activists to demand a gay civil-union instead of a gay marriage.

To Catholics, for example, marriage is one of the sacraments.

Quote:
The Latin word sacramentum means "a sign of the sacred." The seven sacraments are ceremonies that point to what is sacred, significant and important for Christians. They are special occasions for experiencing God's saving presence. That's what theologians mean when they say that sacraments are at the same time signs and instruments of God's grace.


They believe that marriage is a holy event and is as important to them as baptism, communion, etc. Why should they not be allowed to keep the sanctity of their beliefs whole? Why should a small minority of people be allowed to destroy the sanctity of an entire religious experience if it is all just wordplay?

Call it a civil-union, give them the equal protection and rights they deserve, but call it something else besides marriage.
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Cycloptichorn
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 12:44 pm
Why? So that the Catholics can feel better?

They don't have to recognize any homosexual marriages at all. Just the state. Noone is asking for a church to recognize anything.

I agree with a much older prospect that the gov't should get out of the marriage business altogether and just issue everyone civil unions, and let the churches deal with 'marriage.' It would neatly solve a bunch of issues.

Cycloptichorn
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yitwail
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 12:48 pm
this has already been brought up in the gay marriage/lightning rod thread, but William J. Clinton signed the defense of marriage act defining marriage as "a legal union between one man and one woman". if that didn't make Clinton homophobic, then Obama isn't homophobic either.
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Lash
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 12:52 pm
yitwail wrote:
this has already been brought up in the gay marriage/lightning rod thread, but William J. Clinton signed the defense of marriage act defining marriage as "a legal union between one man and one woman". if that didn't make Clinton homophobic, then Obama isn't homophobic either.

People, c'mon. This is an unassailable point.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 01:14 pm
I wasn't part of the discussion that set this off, but since I'm one of the more vocal supporters of Obama, and especially the idea of him running for president, I'll go ahead and respond to this one in and of itself:

I have arrived at my support for Obama for a lot of reasons, but it can probably be distilled into an equation where I rate 1) how much I personally agree with a given candidate, and 2) how good of a chance the candidate has of actually getting elected, and then average the two scores. Someone I personally love who has a snowball's chance in hell (Feingold, perhaps) will score lower than Obama, as will someone who has a really good chance but who I personally disagree with (McCain, maybe?).

So, I'd personally like it if Obama went whole-hog with an expression of support for gay marriage, and promised to make it legal throughout the US if he became president. But that would probably be dangerous in terms of #2, and in the final analysis, the comments McG quoted were uttered as he was doing something that is exactly what I'd want him to do, politically -- striking down the ban on gay marriage that Bush was backing.
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Lash
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 01:21 pm
No candidate is perfect. You have to go with the guy/person who you have the most, or the most important, things in common with.

I think the unassilable point non-Democrats are lodging is that if someone is a bigot or a homophobe for the same sentiments, Barack is, too.
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Walter Hinteler
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 01:24 pm


Marriage at and in churches is something totally different to a legal marriage, at a registry office.

So, Catholics are not allowed to marry divorced people - but quite a lot do it in Austria, where it can be done ...

But that wasn't the topic, I know.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 01:36 pm
OK, I read the other thread, not sure whether to respond here or there.

Point one -- Inhofe was voting for the gay marriage ban. Obama was voting against.

Point two -- Obama was saying some pretty standard things about what marriage means within his religion. Someone saying that they are "proud" that there are no gay people in his family is saying something more specific, and, IMO, more objectionable.

I take McG's point about context as a general concept. I'm a great fan of context. Even in terms of battling out-of-context quotes, though, there seems to be a significant difference between these two quotes. I have a feeling that the discussion of whether they are in fact significantly different will go nowhere fast -- or nowhere slowly and at great length Laughing -- so I'll leave it at that, I think.
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dyslexia
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 01:39 pm
It is my undersetanding that Obama (is that not an unamerican name) is african-american- probable protestant christian-registered democrat-not from Connecticut/texas and a secular humanist/ I cannot vote for such a disgrace of a human (not anglo) bean.
Your friend the Dys.
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Thomas
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 03:41 pm
CoastalRat wrote:
Well, just to set the record straight FD, I don't think you are a flaming liberal. More like a nice roaring warm fire of a liberal. Smile

I would characterize FreeDuck as an utterly cool liberal. Please expect me to start a thread and hurl invectives at you about it soon.
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nimh
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 03:50 pm
McGentrix wrote:
to some, it didn't matter. It only mattered that a Repbublican sounded anti-gay marriage.

And the context showed that he indeed was anti-gay marriage. Anti-homosexuality, period, in fact. So whats your problem?

There was no misrepresentation if a quote was used that made him sound as something that he actually was.
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FreeDuck
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 03:54 pm
Thomas wrote:
CoastalRat wrote:
Well, just to set the record straight FD, I don't think you are a flaming liberal. More like a nice roaring warm fire of a liberal. Smile

I would characterize FreeDuck as an utterly cool liberal. Please expect me to start a thread and hurl invectives at you about it soon.


Not to be confused with a cold liberal, or a frigid liberal, of course. As Bear says, no-one likes ColdDuck.
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nimh
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 03:55 pm
I'm a lukewarm socialist, but I'm too hot to be a liberal!
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Walter Hinteler
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 03:57 pm
A liberally pinky roasted duck's breast come in my mind ... Embarrassed
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SierraSong
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 04:34 pm
I read an article yesterday in which Howard Dean said, "The Democratic Party platform from 2004 says that marriage is between a man and a woman."

He was being interviewed by a Christian publication and expounding on how alike the Democrats and Evangelicals are...(I laughed and laughed at that one).

He's such a liar.

Then Kennedy said that, "A vote for this amendment is a vote for bigotry".

Well, he ceased being relevant ages ago, but someone should tell him that a bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from their own .............

And the knife cuts both ways.



As for what Obama said - it reminds me of Kerry and the abortion issue. Kerry always said he believed life begins at conception, but is pro-abortion and it always struck me that essentially that makes him pro-murder.

Part of me would love to see Obama come out swinging for his convictions on the marriage issue, although I certainly understand why he won't.
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Miller
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 07:53 pm
dyslexia wrote:
It is my undersetanding that Obama (is that not an unamerican name) is african-american- probable protestant christian-registered democrat-not from Connecticut/texas and a secular humanist/ I cannot vote for such a disgrace of a human (not anglo) bean.
Your friend the Dys.


And what else do you know about this Senator? Have you ever seen his home? Have you ever seen his wife? Laughing
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Miller
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 07:57 pm
SierraSong wrote:
I read an article yesterday in which Howard Dean said, "The Democratic Party platform from 2004 says that marriage is between a man and a woman."

He was being interviewed by a Christian publication and expounding on how alike the Democrats and Evangelicals are...(I laughed and laughed at that one).

He's such a liar.

Then Kennedy said that, "A vote for this amendment is a vote for bigotry".

Well, he ceased being relevant ages ago, but someone should tell him that a bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from their own .............

And the knife cuts both ways.



As for what Obama said - it reminds me of Kerry and the abortion issue. Kerry always said he believed life begins at conception, but is pro-abortion and it always struck me that essentially that makes him pro-murder.

Part of me would love to see Obama come out swinging for his convictions on the marriage issue, although I certainly understand why he won't.


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Kerry's first wife is reported to have had at least one abortion.
So I guess, Dear John is pro-abortion. Razz Razz Razz Razz
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2006 08:44 pm
nimh wrote:
I'm a lukewarm socialist, but I'm too hot to be a liberal!



I relate to that.

On marriage, huh. I think marriage and civil unions are the same damn thing. Or same thing, damned. Or same thing, dammit. Some of these compacts are blessed by various religious organizations.

I would so hate to hear that my long marriage by a justice of the peace counts for naught. Not legally does it count for naught, no matter what who thinks at this point in time (now there's a phrase I haven't heard for a while).
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