women who won't have sex with their husbands are like children at a birthday party.
There is only one slice of cake left and a girl will ignore that slice of cake until the chance another girl might want it and then that's not allowed.
Women feel it's their right to withhold sex ( a control issue) but will not recognize the man's right to get it somewhere else if it's refused him enough at home. Double standard bullshit and the cause of MANY a divorce.
I don't know how many of you have been divorced but really... would going ahead and engaging in sex once in awhile even if it's not the most important thing on your list be more unpleasnat than a nasty divorce and the ripple effect it has on not just your life but others? (like children)
I know the standard answer to that question is "Wouls it kill a man to do without and not make such a fuss" "Why is sex so important anyway"?
Speaking as a man, and one with a very active libido I can tell you that when a man is receiving sex on a regular basis and the woman is at least PRETENDING it's not a chore akin to scrubbing the toilets, he will be willing to shrug his shoulders and just hold you when you say no. However, when it becomes a constant turn down or presented as an unpleasant chore, then it becomes a big deal and things go south.
So remember girls, be regular in your favors and at least pretend you're into it. We won't catch on because we're more than willing to be fooled in that regard. :wink:
Not like squinney and I have that problem we don't but I had a previous wife with that problem. I held out for a while and then just started f*cking everyone with a clear conscience.
As a matter a fact I believe a very wise man once said "Stiff dick has no conscience"