I know many disabled people who are quite happy with their lives.Check out:
http://www.specialolympics.org. Your comments our rather offensive to anyone who has developed or had a severe problems, I know some are terminal but there are people who have recovered from such ailments and others who are quite happy to live with them. I have yet to hear one wishing for death, although i would not doubt that it does happen.
The point here is simple, if the child was not aborted then it would be quite likely to live and be normal, even if it had been adopted to other childless parents.
Parents of a child who survives an abortion deserve to see what crime they have done, no matter what the expense is, that child has a right to life and if it fought that hard to survive the abortion then it should be allowed a chance, no matter how slim or how expensive, he/she might have a mental or physical handicap but who are you or anyone else to deny it a chance.
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Perhaps "productive" was a poor word. I'm quite sure you know what I mean, so I'm not going to fumble around with the explanation. As for you, you can't "choose" to have severe mental handicaps or choose to be tube fed or choose to have lung disease or choose to have your muscles tighten up to the point that you can't move. And if you could, you wouldn't "deserve" to die. Although, I suspect if those afflictions were to suddenly be placed upon you or the majority of reasonable people, they would wish they were dead.
That is no way to live. Immobile and quite possibly with barely enough higher brain function to even know you are alive. And as for a doctor doing "everything we can," we know there are things we cannot fix and no amount of doing or trying can help. You could leave a kid on life support for weeks or months if you want, and all you will have managed to do is to delay his death, and cost his parents hundreds of thousands of dollars.
In cases dealing with these children, I think it more kind to let them go rather than force them to keep living as a non-functional human.
Your entire argument is based on your belief that this kid would want to live. But what if he wants to die? What if he doesn't' want to live with all these machines and medical attention he needs just to survive? You would make him suffer through because you are displacing your feelings about life onto him.
I can't think of anyone that would say they would rather be alive and suffering in anguish than to just pass on.[/quote]