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Abortion.What do you think about it?

 
 
real life
 
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Reply Wed 21 Jun, 2006 11:32 pm
joefromchicago wrote:
real life wrote:
So your rationale for not addressing the issue is that it is 'complicated' and 'bewildering'.

On the contrary, I am eager to discuss the legal ramifications of considering a fetus as a "person" under the fourteenth amendment, and I trust that you are too.


Really? Why the change?

All we've heard previously is that you do not care if the unborn is a living human being or not.

Do you now agree with the Supreme Court that the personhood of the unborn is the issue which could justify banning abortion?

What is the point of your further questions if an innocent living human being can be exterminated for being inconvenient?
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joefromchicago
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 07:55 am
real life wrote:
Really? Why the change?

All we've heard previously is that you do not care if the unborn is a living human being or not.

Do you now agree with the Supreme Court that the personhood of the unborn is the issue which could justify banning abortion?

What is the point of your further questions if an innocent living human being can be exterminated for being inconvenient?

I'll answer your questions just as soon as you answer mine, real life.
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real life
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 08:20 am
joe-

My questions were mostly rhetorical.

The reason I don't expect an answer is that your consistent position (if it can be called a position ) is 'I don't care if the unborn is a living human being or not'.

Since you brush aside addressing the central issue of the abortion question, your bunny trails are just diversions.
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joefromchicago
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 08:32 am
real life wrote:
joe-

My questions were mostly rhetorical.

The reason I don't expect an answer is that your consistent position (if it can be called a position ) is 'I don't care if the unborn is a living human being or not'.

Since you brush aside addressing the central issue of the abortion question, your bunny trails are just diversions.

My questions have nothing to do with my position on abortion; any supposed flaw in my position, therefore, should have no bearing on your ability to answer the questions that I posed. My questions deal specifically with your position, so if you are incapable of answering them, then I can only conclude that you don't understand your own position -- which, I suspect, is indeed the case.
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USAFHokie80
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 09:14 am
BDV wrote:
Its terrible that a law had to brought in to protect failed abortions due to the heartlessness of doctors, is this what the human race is coming too? I worked in a slaughter house when in my teens and the animals where treated with more dignity than this.

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Nurses at Christ Hospital in Illinois, for example, testified that numerous babies were born alive and then left to die, sometimes in soiled utility closets, including infants with non-fatal disabilities as old as 23 weeks' gestation.


a 23 week old infant may not have "terminal" disabilities, but they usually end up requiring a trach, having to be tube fed and severe lung dysfunctions. and these don't "go away." a child born at 23 weeks will not have much of a "life" as i see it. i know i would rather die than be confined to a bed or chair, requiring several machines to keep me alive (and i mean "alive" in the strictest of biological senses).
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real life
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 10:02 am
USAFHokie80 wrote:
BDV wrote:
Its terrible that a law had to brought in to protect failed abortions due to the heartlessness of doctors, is this what the human race is coming too? I worked in a slaughter house when in my teens and the animals where treated with more dignity than this.

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Nurses at Christ Hospital in Illinois, for example, testified that numerous babies were born alive and then left to die, sometimes in soiled utility closets, including infants with non-fatal disabilities as old as 23 weeks' gestation.


a 23 week old infant may not have "terminal" disabilities, but they usually end up requiring a trach, having to be tube fed and severe lung dysfunctions. and these don't "go away." a child born at 23 weeks will not have much of a "life" as i see it. i know i would rather die than be confined to a bed or chair, requiring several machines to keep me alive (and i mean "alive" in the strictest of biological senses).


I appreciate your input.

Do you think that your feeling that you yourself may not want to live if you needed this type of medical care should also mean that no one else should be allowed to live if they need this type of medical care?

Would you, (against their will or not knowing their will), pull the plug on someone else who needed this type of care? Would you automatically assume that they would feel the same feelings that you do?

Do you think that some folks would rather have some chance to live than none at all?

Aren't there medical conditions that were at one time severely limiting and now are much less so? If we had simply killed off those folks before advanced care was able to make their lives better, would that have been the right decision?

If we are gonna kill off those who need advanced care, what is the point of developing the advanced care and treatments?
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BDV
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 11:04 am
Hmmm, so now we kill off everyone who requires medical attention, clutching at straws here abit. Even so a baby who survives an abortion at 23 weeks has at the very least a right to a dignified death, not shoved in a closet out of the way, and the mother who had the abortion should have to witness it, as it was her who murdered the poor baby.

USAFHokie80 wrote:
BDV wrote:
Its terrible that a law had to brought in to protect failed abortions due to the heartlessness of doctors, is this what the human race is coming too? I worked in a slaughter house when in my teens and the animals where treated with more dignity than this.

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Nurses at Christ Hospital in Illinois, for example, testified that numerous babies were born alive and then left to die, sometimes in soiled utility closets, including infants with non-fatal disabilities as old as 23 weeks' gestation.


a 23 week old infant may not have "terminal" disabilities, but they usually end up requiring a trach, having to be tube fed and severe lung dysfunctions. and these don't "go away." a child born at 23 weeks will not have much of a "life" as i see it. i know i would rather die than be confined to a bed or chair, requiring several machines to keep me alive (and i mean "alive" in the strictest of biological senses).
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BDV
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 11:12 am
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22 week babies


Nationwide, most 22 week babies are given hospice care. Very few 22 week babies have survived. Our estimate of the chance of a 22 week baby surviving with intensive care, 10%, really is just an estimate, because we have not yet succeeded in sending a 22 week baby home alive here despite several attempts. Most of those 22 week babies died after the brain was badly injured by severe bleeding into the brain and intensive care was withdrawn.


Before we begin the intensive care of a 22 week baby, we want to be as sure as possible that the baby's parents are fully aware of the high odds against the survival of such a baby. Also, little is known about the outcomes of such babies, except to guess that the risk of handicaps is higher than it is at 23 and 24 weeks.


Survival at 23 weeks


Nationwide, many 23 week babies are given hospice care. However, we have given intensive care to most, but certainly not all, 23 week babies born here since 1990. About 50% of 23 week babies given intensive care here survive. About half of the deaths have followed withdrawal of intensive care after severe bleeding into the brain.


An individual baby's chance of surviving may be much different from that 50% overall figure, however. These individual differences are mostly due to four issues:


1. the time into that week (a baby barely 23 weeks is less likely to do well than a baby almost 24 weeks),

2. the baby's gender (girls tend to do better than boys),

3. multiple pregnancy (singletons tend to do better than individual babies from multiple pregnancies), and

4. whether there was time before birth to give the steroid (betamethasone, also called Celestone) shots to the mother (which helps the baby's chance of surviving and avoiding severe brain bleeding).


Depending on these factors, we might estimate an individual baby's chances for survival to be anywhere from 25% to 75%.
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USAFHokie80
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 11:42 am
real life wrote:
USAFHokie80 wrote:
BDV wrote:
Its terrible that a law had to brought in to protect failed abortions due to the heartlessness of doctors, is this what the human race is coming too? I worked in a slaughter house when in my teens and the animals where treated with more dignity than this.

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Nurses at Christ Hospital in Illinois, for example, testified that numerous babies were born alive and then left to die, sometimes in soiled utility closets, including infants with non-fatal disabilities as old as 23 weeks' gestation.


a 23 week old infant may not have "terminal" disabilities, but they usually end up requiring a trach, having to be tube fed and severe lung dysfunctions. and these don't "go away." a child born at 23 weeks will not have much of a "life" as i see it. i know i would rather die than be confined to a bed or chair, requiring several machines to keep me alive (and i mean "alive" in the strictest of biological senses).


I appreciate your input.

Do you think that your feeling that you yourself may not want to live if you needed this type of medical care should also mean that no one else should be allowed to live if they need this type of medical care?

Would you, (against their will or not knowing their will), pull the plug on someone else who needed this type of care? Would you automatically assume that they would feel the same feelings that you do?

Do you think that some folks would rather have some chance to live than none at all?

Aren't there medical conditions that were at one time severely limiting and now are much less so? If we had simply killed off those folks before advanced care was able to make their lives better, would that have been the right decision?

If we are gonna kill off those who need advanced care, what is the point of developing the advanced care and treatments?


I'm sure some people would chose to live if they were suddenly stricken with an illness. But a 23 week old child, even on FULL life support still has an extremely high mortality rate. Many pediatricians will not resuscitate a 23 week old baby. A 23 week old will have c.p. so bad he will be immobile for his life. His brain will not be developed and his brain will bleed into the cavity. These children will never know real life any more than you would had you been born into a black box and left to live there for your "life".

I'm not advocating the "murder" of anyone. I'm only trying to put some of this stuff into perspective.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 11:46 am
It is worth noting at this juncture that people like "real life" like to trot out such horror stories out of all context. Does the member "real life" purport that 23 week old foetuses delivered live in the course of an abortion are a common phenomenon? If he asserts that, i will consider him a shameless liar.
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USAFHokie80
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 11:54 am
BDV wrote:
Quote:
22 week babies


Nationwide, most 22 week babies are given hospice care. Very few 22 week babies have survived. Our estimate of the chance of a 22 week baby surviving with intensive care, 10%, really is just an estimate, because we have not yet succeeded in sending a 22 week baby home alive here despite several attempts. Most of those 22 week babies died after the brain was badly injured by severe bleeding into the brain and intensive care was withdrawn.


Before we begin the intensive care of a 22 week baby, we want to be as sure as possible that the baby's parents are fully aware of the high odds against the survival of such a baby. Also, little is known about the outcomes of such babies, except to guess that the risk of handicaps is higher than it is at 23 and 24 weeks.


Survival at 23 weeks


Nationwide, many 23 week babies are given hospice care. However, we have given intensive care to most, but certainly not all, 23 week babies born here since 1990. About 50% of 23 week babies given intensive care here survive. About half of the deaths have followed withdrawal of intensive care after severe bleeding into the brain.


An individual baby's chance of surviving may be much different from that 50% overall figure, however. These individual differences are mostly due to four issues:


1. the time into that week (a baby barely 23 weeks is less likely to do well than a baby almost 24 weeks),

2. the baby's gender (girls tend to do better than boys),

3. multiple pregnancy (singletons tend to do better than individual babies from multiple pregnancies), and

4. whether there was time before birth to give the steroid (betamethasone, also called Celestone) shots to the mother (which helps the baby's chance of surviving and avoiding severe brain bleeding).


Depending on these factors, we might estimate an individual baby's chances for survival to be anywhere from 25% to 75%.



I think you guys are losing sight of the concept of life. Survival and life are not the same. Sure, *some* of these babies will survive, but they are guaranteed to have brain hemorrhage , lung disease, at very least slight cerebral palsy. These kids will never get to play in a sandbox at 2 y.o. they'll never get to graduate high school at 18.
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real life
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 12:15 pm
USAFHokie80 wrote:
real life wrote:
USAFHokie80 wrote:
BDV wrote:
Its terrible that a law had to brought in to protect failed abortions due to the heartlessness of doctors, is this what the human race is coming too? I worked in a slaughter house when in my teens and the animals where treated with more dignity than this.

Quote:
Nurses at Christ Hospital in Illinois, for example, testified that numerous babies were born alive and then left to die, sometimes in soiled utility closets, including infants with non-fatal disabilities as old as 23 weeks' gestation.


a 23 week old infant may not have "terminal" disabilities, but they usually end up requiring a trach, having to be tube fed and severe lung dysfunctions. and these don't "go away." a child born at 23 weeks will not have much of a "life" as i see it. i know i would rather die than be confined to a bed or chair, requiring several machines to keep me alive (and i mean "alive" in the strictest of biological senses).


I appreciate your input.

Do you think that your feeling that you yourself may not want to live if you needed this type of medical care should also mean that no one else should be allowed to live if they need this type of medical care?

Would you, (against their will or not knowing their will), pull the plug on someone else who needed this type of care? Would you automatically assume that they would feel the same feelings that you do?

Do you think that some folks would rather have some chance to live than none at all?

Aren't there medical conditions that were at one time severely limiting and now are much less so? If we had simply killed off those folks before advanced care was able to make their lives better, would that have been the right decision?

If we are gonna kill off those who need advanced care, what is the point of developing the advanced care and treatments?


I'm sure some people would chose to live if they were suddenly stricken with an illness. But a 23 week old child, even on FULL life support still has an extremely high mortality rate. Many pediatricians will not resuscitate a 23 week old baby. A 23 week old will have c.p. so bad he will be immobile for his life. His brain will not be developed and his brain will bleed into the cavity. These children will never know real life any more than you would had you been born into a black box and left to live there for your "life".

I'm not advocating the "murder" of anyone. I'm only trying to put some of this stuff into perspective.


I understand. And your perspective is appreciated.

No doubt preemies face huge, often insurmountable odds. And against those odds, they lose frequently.

But the Moms and Dads who fight for their kids to at least have a chance are the finest people in the world. Those who have to put up with doctors who advise them to give up are the best.

The few who make it through will make it possible for more to make it through tomorrow, and even more after that.

from http://www.alittlepregnant.com/alittlepregnant/2005/10/preemie_playgro.html

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Every baby is different. I was pg with triplet boys. I gave birth to H at 21 weeks and he did not survive. I gave birth to B & D at 22 weeks and 6 days. They are now 20 months old. They stayed in the NICU for over 18 weeks. Dylan is doing great. He has caught up with a 20 month old child. Blane is really behind. He is at a 6 month old leave in most areas. I won't go into all details but the main reason is due to hearing loss and so long on oxygen & monitors. I feel for any parent that has a preemie whether they be 22 weekers or 37 weekers. Some comments do bother me, but I try to remember that all mothers have a right to worry about their babies. I know many mothers that gave birth to full term babies that have problems. All I can say is todays technology is wonderful. And the love that NICU nurses give the sick babies. Without that, my children would not be here today. So hats off to all mothers whether you had preemies or not.



Hope you are having a great day.
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Frank Apisa
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 12:45 pm
real life wrote:
But the Moms and Dads who fight for their kids to at least have a chance are the finest people in the world.



Obviously said because they agree with your philosophy of stickingyour nose into areas where it does not belong and is not welcome...and since you think you are one of the finest people in the world...they must be also.

Fact is...some of the people who have abortions...and others who allow loved ones to die...are some of the finest people in the world also.

You people who stick your nose into other people's private business in order to ass kiss your idiot god...although some of the finest people in the world are among your number....some of the scum of the Earth is there also.



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Those who have to put up with doctors who advise them to give up are the best.


More of the same.
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Frank Apisa
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 12:46 pm
Oh...

...and I hope you are having a delightful day, Life.
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USAFHokie80
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 12:50 pm
put up with doctors? we go to doctors because they know better than we do about these things. if a doctor tells a parent that her child can survive but cannot lead any sort of productive life and thus recommends she abort, he's not just making it up. he's giving her this advise based on his experience with the situation and what he KNOWS to be true, not his idealogical beliefs.
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dyslexia
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 01:08 pm
You should never, ever, listen to your Doctor. They all went to Universities and we all know that the Universities are full of commie-pinko liberals. I suggest you only listen to your minister, who attended a good bible school, for medical advice.
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real life
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 02:51 pm
USAFHokie80 wrote:
put up with doctors? we go to doctors because they know better than we do about these things. if a doctor tells a parent that her child can survive but cannot lead any sort of productive life and thus recommends she abort, he's not just making it up. he's giving her this advise based on his experience with the situation and what he KNOWS to be true, not his idealogical beliefs.


Recommending that the patient should be killed is not a treatment option.

What is and is not a 'productive life' is purely subjective. If I were to choose live a completely 'unproductive life' , does that mean I deserve the death penalty?

Even if a doctor afterwards says, 'we've done everything we can, nothing has worked and we've completely exhausted the limited options that we did have' , then at least he has done his best and his job now is to make the patient as comfortable as possible, etc.

Proactively putting the patient down may be fitting for horses and dogs but not for people. (At least the vet gives the dog anesthetic. Abortions are violent , brutal and painful death without it.)
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BDV
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 03:37 pm
OK, we seem to be going of track abit, here is another angle to consider

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The study found that eight years after their abortions, married women were 138 percent more likely to be at high risk of clinical depression compared to women who carried their unintended first pregnancies to term.


Source : http://www.chp.ca/arc-CHPSpeaksOut/abortionLinksJan22_2002.htm

and also for those that talk of legit reasons to abort here is another figure

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Only 1% of the abortions, 1,900 in total, were carried out under grounds that the child would be born disabled.


Source : http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4379422.stm
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USAFHokie80
 
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Reply Thu 22 Jun, 2006 06:51 pm
real life wrote:

Recommending that the patient should be killed is not a treatment option.

What is and is not a 'productive life' is purely subjective. If I were to choose live a completely 'unproductive life' , does that mean I deserve the death penalty?

Even if a doctor afterwards says, 'we've done everything we can, nothing has worked and we've completely exhausted the limited options that we did have' , then at least he has done his best and his job now is to make the patient as comfortable as possible, etc.

Proactively putting the patient down may be fitting for horses and dogs but not for people. (At least the vet gives the dog anesthetic. Abortions are violent , brutal and painful death without it.)


Perhaps "productive" was a poor word. I'm quite sure you know what I mean, so I'm not going to fumble around with the explanation. As for you, you can't "choose" to have severe mental handicaps or choose to be tube fed or choose to have lung disease or choose to have your muscles tighten up to the point that you can't move. And if you could, you wouldn't "deserve" to die. Although, I suspect if those afflictions were to suddenly be placed upon you or the majority of reasonable people, they would wish they were dead.

That is no way to live. Immobile and quite possibly with barely enough higher brain function to even know you are alive. And as for a doctor doing "everything we can," we know there are things we cannot fix and no amount of doing or trying can help. You could leave a kid on life support for weeks or months if you want, and all you will have managed to do is to delay his death, and cost his parents hundreds of thousands of dollars.

In cases dealing with these children, I think it more kind to let them go rather than force them to keep living as a non-functional human.

Your entire argument is based on your belief that this kid would want to live. But what if he wants to die? What if he doesn't' want to live with all these machines and medical attention he needs just to survive? You would make him suffer through because you are displacing your feelings about life onto him.

I can't think of anyone that would say they would rather be alive and suffering in anguish than to just pass on.
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real life
 
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Reply Fri 23 Jun, 2006 02:06 am
Setanta wrote:
It is worth noting at this juncture that people like "real life" like to trot out such horror stories out of all context. Does the member "real life" purport that 23 week old foetuses delivered live in the course of an abortion are a common phenomenon? If he asserts that, i will consider him a shameless liar.


You might recall that I am not the one who began this line of discussion.

BDV had posted:

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Nurses at Christ Hospital in Illinois, for example, testified that numerous babies were born alive and then left to die, sometimes in soiled utility closets, including infants with non-fatal disabilities as old as 23 weeks' gestation.


Hope you're having a great day.
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