kitkat_bar wrote:I have been with him since I was 17 and I moved out of the house for the first time in my life to move in with him so I have never experienced life away from my parents on my own.
Oh, this explains SO much!!!
The basic problem is, you married too young, kitkat...before you had a chance to develop into your own person. I have seen many marriages dissolve when the child-person grows up. I am a firm believer that no one can know what they want in a partner until they learn to be happy on their own.
You cannot remain in your current position, kitkat. You are right, you need to move on. And the sooner the better for all involved.