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How can I get my husbands sex drive to increase? He does work hard an I am sure that there are times that he is exausted.. there are times that I am exausted too but I feel liek even though I am not necessairly in the mood that I have to take it while I can...I know his exaustion does not stop him from looking at porn or masturbating. I am begining to wonder if he is not sexually attracted to me....I have tried many avenues but I just want him to find me irresistable once in a while...any advice

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Would I be right in thinking that you have a young child?

If so, why not try getting the grandparents to look after him/her for a weekend, and surprise him, by taking him for a couple of days away from it all, and bonking him silly.

Worked for me once!

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thanks
we do have a child.....but he is almost 8...this is a reoccurring thing and I am staring to get quite sensative about it......
I love your quote...very us...love to annoy each other

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If he works hard he probably feels like ar obot rather than a husband or an attractive man.
I hope things work out for you.

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First of all, and I don't mean to sound snotty, how's your physical appearance? We men are very visual creatures, after all (hence, the general affinity for pornography-- although I just read the articles myself).

Second, what do you do to put him in the mood? Or do you just expect him to know when you're feeling randy? Sometimes we need to be smacked upside the head before we take notice (especially after a hard day's work).

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mommaofone wrote:

I love your quote...very us...love to annoy each other

<AHEM>.......The word "bonking" means, well, how can I put this......

"Hide the sausage?"......."Playing cars and garages?"......"Trains and tunnels?"......."Rumpy?"........

...RUMPY....that's the word I was looking for!

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Have we met?

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I have, I dont recomend it.

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blueveinedthrobber wrote:

Have we met?

Well BVT, you ARE lying on your back with legs akimbo, so I would say that we have, yes.

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material girl wrote:

I have, I dont recomend it.

You've met BVT?

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blacksmithn wrote:

First of all, and I don't mean to sound snotty, how's your physical appearance? We men are very visual creatures, after all (hence, the general affinity for pornography-- although I just read the articles myself).
Second, what do you do to put him in the mood? Or do you just expect him to know when you're feeling randy? Sometimes we need to be smacked upside the head before we take notice (especially after a hard day's work).

okay I suppose....I am short with a athletic, but curvey body there is 12 inches between my bust, waist and hipps....I cut my hair shorter like likes it...I have auburn hair....I dunno...I know I am very differnt than other girls he dated in hte past....and the porn thing I know he likes legs and
I have put on sexy things, stockings, etc...i try to give him hints....sometimes I jsut tell him...but I want him to want me..passionetly...like maybe in another room besides or bedroom..on a weekend,...in the dark

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Has he always been this inattentive or is this a new thing?

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I dunno. I hate that whole "we're visual, so what kinda shape are you in"approach. Either you love me or ya don't.

I'd loan you a Bear....

Seriously, though. Have you talked to him about this? Maybe it's more than just being tired. Maybe it's the family obligation to provide, pressure, demands being made all day and then getting demands at home, or any number of things.

What does he say is the problem?

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As a woman, of course you'd hate it. Doesn't make it less true, though.

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As a woman, of course you'd hate it. Doesn't make it less true, though.

Naaaaww..........its true. lol

Just proposition him, tease him.........pester till you get some. :wink:

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You say this has been a reoccurring thing and that you've only been married for 4 months. Does that mean that you were sexually unsatisfied before you got married or that things changed all of a sudden after the 'I Dos'?

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no I mean by no means have we have been the have sex every day kina couple..I know he is tired, overwhellemed and feels the pressure of work, family etc. sometimes...but I guess that I am bored and I am affraid that he is bored too...I just feel like our sex life should be spicer before we get too old...I don't want to only have sex twice a year when were 40

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I have never heard a woman mention how many inches where between her bust waist and hips...does this mean something?

I hope so, or maybe I don't....I ran and snatched up a "acme made in canada" 12 inch plastic ruler and measured myself. 12 inches exactly between my bust and widest part of my hip...

wait a minute...I have auburn hair...am I talking to myself?

oh....no, couldn't be me, We often enact "The Indian Savage Kidnaps the Lone Praire Maiden Who Wandered Off By Herself."

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Once again, the concept of "too much information" seems to have eluded some of us...

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oh....no, couldn't be me, We often enact "The Indian Savage Kidnaps the Lone Praire Maiden Who Wandered Off By Herself

Sooo Thats YOU that my HUsband has been talking about in his sleep?

UHUMM, now I know.....

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