irishhusband wrote: I really want her to have a great time - but I guess I overestimated how good a time she was having with our marriage as it is. This is really making me reconsider how I can measure up here. I want to keep her forever, you see.
That's not necessarily so irish.
My marriage sounds like yours in that we enjoy each others company and don't socialize outside the home much.
Once in a while one or the other of us travels off for a few days to visit friends or do things that the other wouldn't be interested in. I'll have a blast and do stuff, go places I don't normally at home.
However, by the time I'm going home, I'm VERY glad to be getting back to my usual life....the one I chose to live with him.
Then for the first day or two I'll find myself saying in the evening...BOY am I glad to be home.