tagged_lyricist wrote:Funny thing is i feel like a very different person to what i was 6 months ago and when i look at her it reminds me excatly of why i got out when i did.
But you are a different person now, you see?
It's amazing what having a clear mind can do for your outlook in just 6 months. And this is just the beginning of your journey.
Probably very true about her pushing harder and harder. You're upsetting her status quo.
Back then, I think of some of the unsavory characters in my life, and some that were not bad people, but, well, trash basically. It was all so normal. I can't remember particulars, but I know there were times when someones eyes would open and realize they needed to get out of what they were doing that wasn't working. And what wasn't working was hanging around with the rest of us.
"Oh, All of a sudden they're too GOOD for us!" would be the attitude. Well, yeah actually, that was exactly it.
I don't know if you experienced this yet tag....Since you "got out of" whatever you were doing, do you ever find yourself talking with someone still living the life and suddenly thinking "God, this person is BOR-ING! Isn't there anything else than can talk about?" Not to say that everyone who drinks/drugs is untelligent. However, when you really stop and think about it, the mere fact that whatever is going to be going on has to be weighed against the availability of booze/drugs, it kind of limits your choices. Doesn't it?
You're just starting to grow tagged....and your friend isn't, at least not yet. Don't take her sh!t, but leave the door open a crack.