I don't know how to handle this really...
I have been friends with this girlfriend since i was 6 ( 16 years of friendship) we even stayed friends over continents (she lived in glasgow for a decade while i stayed here in jo'burg). Anyway she moved back here at the end of last year (novmeber) we were very close. Then suddenly wham bam over.
Anyway she used to get drunk and abusive towards me (we did alot of crazy things any of you seen "y tu mama tambien" swop the boys for girls it was like that with us including the end of the friendship it seems). I mean it was a friendship where we shared EVERYTHING. But she became so abusive and egocentric near the end; it all happened so fast.
Then after 3 months of not being friends we speak at a club and we decide to hook up for cofee yesterday, she stood me up! I waited for her for forty minutes phoned her twenty times, nothing, nada. She never called me later but she came to mutal friends birthday last night and pretended like nothing happned.
I confront, she says oh i heard my phone ringing but i was driving i got caught up and couldn't come. So I look her in the eye pause go "oh... that does not impress me." and then i turn and walk off. If she had slapped me it would have been better.
I feel this might be the straw that broke the lame camel's back... sigh.
Sorry it's so long but trust me it could be longer