No, Chumly. The problem is that it assumes a standard that everyone would conform to.
As crimsontriad already explained, 5 times a day would be just perfect for some couples, way the hell too much for other couples. If BOTH couples share the preference, it doesn't matter one bit what the preference IS.
It's all way too individual.
Take laughs, too -- I've known people who make me laugh a ton who I'd hate to be in a relationship with.
Then for the rest, how do you quantify love? Friendship? Companionship? Attraction?
They're all so subjective.
crimsontriad, the problem with this:
Quote:ongevity cant be used because you cant say that a couple married 5 years and still completely in love and in sync with each other is less successful than a couple together for 10 years that hate each other but stay together for the kids.
is that it's not how these studies are done. They look at whether the couple married 5 years, in your example, STAYS together.
Why would they be completely in love and in sync with each other and get a divorce?
I'd say that if they do, they're likely to be unsuccessful.
I think these studies become more and more trustworthy the as divorce loses its stigma and as women have more resources available to them -- I think that the likelihood of a truly unhappy couple staying together is much lower now than, possibly, any other time in modern history. (i.e., since marriage became an institution.)