crimsontriad wrote:if given the option, i think that is what most people would prefer.
People ARE given the option.
Most pick marriage.
Luckily for a good chunk of them they have both love and marriage, but some don't have love and get married anyway due to social pressure, or the need for companionship, or security, or just because we are creatures who need other creatures close to us.
I think marriage has been a given for many years - people have been expected to get married. In the recent past it has become not so unreasonable for some people to turn away from the need to be 'married' and simply live with their significant other. People don't look as strangely at the singletons who respond they are not married.
I do believe that the only thing that would get me down the marriage aisle would be if I was head-over-heels, crazy in love, couldn't breathe without him, love! Nothing else would do.