Momma Angel wrote:Nimh,
I would say it would be safe to say that I bet most of your girlfriends did, indeed, have a Bob. Some are more comfortable with letting their partners know about it than others.
Uhmm, no... I mean, yes I can see that point! But no ... My first two gf's were practically newbies and were <ahem> at least as naive as Heph <ducks> ... whereas the third one had nooo hesitation in sharing most
anything when it came to sex. Believe me, she'd have used it
Sure liked the latter better... <sighs>
As far as the others, you know, the ones that I was with for the one time or a coupla days or every now and again through the years or (once) a coupla months - sure, probably, whatever, I guess so!
Still tho .. one more stupid n geeky question (hey, youse a geek or you're not) ...
when did y'all buy yer first ones?
Asking cause there's been, like, a veritable
boom at least in the writing and talking about it (in endless womens mags and teen mags and chat shows and sitcoms - Sex in the City!), in Holland anyway, in, like, the past ten years or so... (America's probably got a few years advance on us..)
I mean, suddenly you got to have, like, women-friendly sex toy shops (away from the seedy old-style ones), a for-women postal order co. ("Mail & Female") was started and grew big (in the years just before the Internet), explanations on how to use 'em in teen magazines, you got all that ... but all in, like, the mid-90s onwards?
So what do you think, did that all actually boost sales and use too, or did it just bring into the open what always had already existed and been used? I remember an interview with the owner of that for-women sex toy shop saying that suddenly, it wasnt just confident late-twenty and thirty-something career women coming in anymore, but schoolgirls, older women...
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