@chai2,
My husbands out of town for the week, and poor otis is befuddled by it all.
roland has always been my big boyfriend, and after getting to know you, is interactive with people, interested in what you're doing, etc.
otis on the other hand, is more of a "cat cat" except for how he is with Wally. He's a very nice, polite easy-going boy, just mostly has a "oh, it's you" mindset toward anyone besides Wally.
At bedtime otis sleeps next to Wally, sits on him or the end of the recliner while Wally watches TV, etc. otis climbs up his chest and touches noses with him too.
So Wally's not here, and otis is like "excuse me, where's my human?"
I've been beating otis with one of those satin covered clothes hangers. He really likes that. Seriously.
You start whacking him on the head, sides, back and butt and he starts purring loudly and making little grunting noises. If you stop he'll look at you like "Did I tell you to stop?"
When I finally do stop and drop it on the floor (this one is his because the hook part broke off), he grabs it, hugs his arms around it and uses it as a pillow for a while.
No wire hangers though. That would be wrong.