@Ionus,
Number 2 son (it is his cat) asked the old folks home where he got it and it had been mistreated by children who found it abandoned. The old folks took it in and found it a good home.
The methods you suggested are certainly working, it is now far less skittish around any of us. Your suggestion of kindness was the treatment even though we didnt know the illness then. I am just glad I can get out of this without having to pay for a cat scan.
Thanks again people, and I hope it wasnt too much of a downer for the regulars in this thread, but I am sure all would agree on the importance of helping a kitten in distress.