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Prayer=weakness

 
 
Doktor S
 
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Reply Thu 12 Jan, 2006 05:23 pm
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Patently false....then improbable.

You must have missed the 'or'

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Did you once believe in an almighty God?

No. I have found the idea of imaginary friend worship to be perplexing from a very young age.

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Do you always take the credit for every good thing that happens to you?

Only the ones that I am responsible for.
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How about the bad?

This is a key point. Yes I DO take responsibility for those 'bad' things that happen to me of which I am at fault. I have no 'devil' to scapegoat all my problems on to.
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Doktor S
 
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Reply Thu 12 Jan, 2006 05:27 pm
fresco wrote:
Doktor S,

A straight question. Who is or what is "Satan" ?

Fair question. Not relevant to the thread, though. Also, to answer it would be to completely hijack my own thread.
As it relates to this topic, I'll say now that it is not something that requires 'prayer'.
If you are really curious you can PM me or something.
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Bartikus
 
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Reply Thu 12 Jan, 2006 05:49 pm
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Did you once believe in an almighty God?

No. I have found the idea of imaginary friend worship to be perplexing from a very young age.

Then how can you know this?

It is counterproductive because in so doing, you alleviate the anxiety that drives you to actually do something about it, and expect that something may be done for you instead by mystical forces.

Not everyone who prays...does so for their own behalf.

Not every prayer is one of material benefit.

Not all that is prayed for can be acted upon and in actuality it is when a person has no power over a situation that a person is most compelled to pray.

Have you ever been in a situation That you were powerless over?
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Doktor S
 
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Reply Thu 12 Jan, 2006 05:58 pm
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No. I have found the idea of imaginary friend worship to be perplexing from a very young age.

Then how can you know this?

It is counterproductive because in so doing, you alleviate the anxiety that drives you to actually do something about it, and expect that something may be done for you instead by mystical forces.

Are you arguing that one must be delusional to conclude delusion is unhealthy?
Must one also contract aids to discover the peril involved?
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Not everyone who prays...does so for their own behalf.

Not every prayer is one of material benefit.

Poppycock. Altruism is an illusion, no human action is free of self interest entirely. In this instance, once might say the 'comfort' one receives from this 'selfless' prayer, as well as the possible feelings of superiority and 'goodness' that might accompany such a prayer, themselves add up to material benefit.
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Not all that is prayed for can be acted upon and in actuality it is when a person has no power over a situation that a person is most compelled to pray.

Have you ever been in a situation That you were powerless over?


Yes. I am not so unrealistic to believe I have influence (especially deciding influence) over everything. Even in such a situation, using 'prayer' to escape from reality doesn't help anything.;unless you count the 'feel goodness' that comes from escaping from reality. It 'helps' a problem the way doing drugs or drinking 'helps' a problem.
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Chumly
 
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Reply Thu 12 Jan, 2006 06:03 pm
Re: Prayer=weakness
The Satanic Bible wrote:
The Satanist realizes that man, and the action and reaction of the universe, is responsible for everything, and doesn't mislead himself into thinking that someone cares. No longer will we sit back and accept "fate" without doing anything about it, just because it says so in Chapter such and such, Psalm so and so - and that's that! The Satanist knows that praying does absolutely no good - in fact, it actually lessens the chance of success, for the devoutly
religious too often sit back complacently and pray for a situation which, if they were to do something about it on their own, could be accomplished much quicker!

The Satanist shuns terms such as "hope" and "prayer" as they are indicative of apprehension. If we hope and pray for something to come about, we will not act in a positive way which will make it happen. The Satanist, realizing that anything he gets is of his own doing, takes
command of the situation instead of praying to God for it to happen. Positive thinking and positive action add up to results.
I have not seen any definitive correlation between people who "hope and pray", and people who do not, in terms of their material success, at least in the business or political worlds. Show me this definitive correlation.

In fact, I assert you can make a valid argument that people who "hope and pray" have a higher chance of political success (at least in today's world) and I offer as initial proof, most of the more recent US presidents and higher US political figures.

Where is the evidence that "hope and prayer" is "indicative of apprehension" at least in the business or political worlds?

Where is the evidence that religious people "sit back complacently and pray" therefore (one would assume) forgoing action at least in the business or political worlds?

Now I do think one could substantiate that "hope and prayer" diminish the efficacy of people in the scientific and related disciplines.
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Doktor S
 
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Reply Thu 12 Jan, 2006 06:25 pm
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I have not seen any definitive correlation between people who "hope and pray", and people who do not, in terms of their material success, at least in the business or political worlds. Show me this definitive correlation.

In fact, I assert you can make a valid argument that people who "hope and pray" have a higher chance of political success (at least in today's world) and I offer as initial proof, most of the more recent US presidents and higher US political figures.

You are asking for evidence of assertions not made.
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Where is the evidence that "hope and prayer" is "indicative of apprehension" at least in the business or political worlds?

Again, the quoted text says nothing of 'business/political success'.
In terms of evidence in general terms, there are volumes of psychological texts and papers speaking of the ills of self deception and delusional behavior.
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Bartikus
 
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Reply Thu 12 Jan, 2006 06:38 pm
Have you ever been in a situation That you were powerless over?

Yes. I am not so unrealistic to believe I have influence (especially deciding influence) over everything. Even in such a situation, using 'prayer' to escape from reality doesn't help anything.;unless you count the 'feel goodness' that comes from escaping from reality. It 'helps' a problem the way doing drugs or drinking 'helps' a problem.

Then you admit to experiencing powerlessness? Utter weakness even without prayer.

The title of this forum reads:

Prayer = weakness

It should say by your own admittance and by everyone else who has experienced powerlessness over a situation......

Man = weakness/powerless

CHRIST'S POWER IS MADE PERFECT IN WEAKNESS (2 Corinthians 12:1-10)

I must boast; there is nothing to be gained by it, but I will go on to visions and revelations of the Lord. I know a man in Christ who fourteen years ago was caught up to the third heaven--whether in the body or out of the body I do not know, God knows. And I know that this man was caught up into Paradise--whether in the body or out of the body I do not know, God knows--and he heard things that cannot be told, which man may not utter. On behalf of this man I will boast, but on my own behalf I will not boast, except of my weaknesses. Though if I wish to boast, I shall not be a fool, for I shall be speaking the truth. But I refrain from it, so that no one may think more of me than he sees in me or hears from me. And to keep me from being too elated by the abundance of revelations, a thorn was given me in the flesh, a messenger of Satan, to harass me, to keep me from being too elated. Three times I besought the Lord about this, that it should leave me; but he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." I will all the more gladly boast of my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities; for when I am weak, then I am strong

Your right when you say Christians are weak....the difference is......they know they are and it's not prayer that makes them so.
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Doktor S
 
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Reply Thu 12 Jan, 2006 06:45 pm
Way to be irrelevant.
That whole tangent was an attack on a strawman of your own design. congratulations on the victory.
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Chumly
 
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Reply Thu 12 Jan, 2006 07:11 pm
Doktor S wrote:
You are asking for evidence of assertions not made.
Nope, here are the assertions made, I ask for evidence as to relates to "success" and I quote LaVey here:
"praying" "actually lessens the chance of success"
(inferred as unsuccessful they) "too often sit back complacently and pray"

Here is the definition of success, it clearly makes direct reference to business and prosperity:
- The achievement of something desired, planned, or attempted: attributed their success in business to hard work.
- The gaining of fame or prosperity: an artist spoiled by success.
- The extent of such gain.
- One that is successful: The plan was a success.
- Obsolete. A result or an outcome
Doktor S wrote:
Again, the quoted text says nothing of 'business/political success'.
Nope, look again to the definition of "success" above.
Doktor S wrote:
In terms of evidence in general terms, there are volumes of psychological texts and papers speaking of the ills of self deception and delusional behavior.
Not relvent to LaVey's assertions re "success" specific to my referenced examples of the political and business worlds. Further my assertions did not discount the ills of self deception and delusional behavior in whatever form they may take, prayer or otherwise.
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Chumly
 
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Reply Thu 12 Jan, 2006 07:25 pm
Dear Doc,

Further, LaVey does not exempt business and politics. In fact he does the opposite by generalizing with the word "situation" and I quote "the devoutly religious too often sit back complacently and pray for a situation which, if they were to do something about it on their own, could be accomplished much quicker!" Again, in what way does LaVey exempt business and political situations?
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Im the other one
 
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Reply Fri 13 Jan, 2006 12:36 am
Doktor S wrote:
Bartikus wrote:
Doktor S wrote:
What I am saying is that prayer is not only counterproductive, it is also psychologically unhealthy because it is self deceptive.


Why is it unhealthy, counterproductive, and self deceptive? What are the reasons to believe this?

Well, I just answered your first question;It is psychologically unhealthy because it immerses one in self deception. It is self deceptive because you are convincing yourself of something that is patently false. (or at least so improbable as to be laughable)
It is counterproductive because in so doing, you alleviate the anxiety that drives you to actually do something about it, and expect that something may be done for you instead by mystical forces. It is further unhealthy that perceived 'good' things that happen to you are acredited to this imaginary force, often overlooking where the credit is ACTUALLY due (most often oneself)


What would you think to prayer that does work?

Which in my case...it usually does...and I don't ask for little unimportant things...such as a new purse with matching shoes. Razz

Would you think it mere coincidence? Positive energy? Or do you even think there is energy? Since you can't see it...

I believe in God...yet I know he lives within me too. There's no question about it.
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Questioner
 
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Reply Fri 13 Jan, 2006 07:45 am
I'm the other one wrote:
What would you think to prayer that does work?
That would be remarkable indeed!

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Which in my case...it usually does...and I don't ask for little unimportant things...such as a new purse with matching shoes. Razz

What do you ask for? How have your prayers been shown to work?

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Would you think it mere coincidence? Positive energy? Or do you even think there is energy? Since you can't see it...


Since you've not supplied an example of what your answered prayers were, this is a bit difficult to answer now.

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I believe in God...yet I know he lives within me too. There's no question about it.


Actually there are plenty of questions about it, just none you'd accept.
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Doktor S
 
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Reply Fri 13 Jan, 2006 05:55 pm
Chumly.
I see your point and I will have to concede it, my opinions in this matter are based on study, experience and human psychology.
I don't think I could produce the evidence you are asking of me, as the only evidence that could support people that pray being less successful in a buisness forum than theists would be a statistical annalysis. This is problematic.
Most people 'identify' (at least in north america) as 'christian', But I would say most don't pray or even really devote any thought to what it means to be 'christian';ie, they identify that way both because they feel they are supposed to, and they have not given much critical thought to the subject.
So on these grounds I don't feel such a survey would be useful.
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Doktor S
 
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Reply Fri 13 Jan, 2006 06:04 pm
I'm the other one wrote:


What would you think to prayer that does work?

This sentence is nonsensical. I will assume that 'so' is supposed to read 'of' for the purpose of answering.
What would I think? I would think the person accrediting results to prayer was exibiting signs of delusional behavior.

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Which in my case...it usually does...and I don't ask for little unimportant things...such as a new purse with matching shoes. Razz

Right. Do you use magic pixie dust too?
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Would you think it mere coincidence? Positive energy? Or do you even think there is energy? Since you can't see it...

I have never stated something doesn't exist because you can't see it. Try to keep your strawmen to yourself, please.
Energy certainly exists, but not in the context you are asserting.
Anyway, things happen because people make things happen. Not magic...people.

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I believe in God...yet I know he lives within me too. There's no question
about it.

The branch davidians 'knew' a few things too....
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Chumly
 
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Reply Fri 13 Jan, 2006 09:29 pm
Doktor S wrote:
Chumly.
I see your point and I will have to concede it, my opinions in this matter are based on study, experience and human psychology.
I don't think I could produce the evidence you are asking of me, as the only evidence that could support people that pray being less successful in a buisness forum than theists would be a statistical annalysis. This is problematic.
Most people 'identify' (at least in north america) as 'christian', But I would say most don't pray or even really devote any thought to what it means to be 'christian';ie, they identify that way both because they feel they are supposed to, and they have not given much critical thought to the subject.
So on these grounds I don't feel such a survey would be useful.
It is on clear record that there are and have been a substantial number of very successful businessman who were quite religious (and hence one can well argue, pray). I need not produce statistical evidence to substantiate my point because LeVay did not say that some arbitrary percentage of (for example) businessman were diminished by prayer he made a blanket statement: "If we hope and pray for something to come about, we will not act in a positive way which will make it happen."

In the political arena it seems rather clear that many US politicians spout references to god with clockwork regularity, so I feel safe to say that prayer (which we may well assume goes hand in hand with all the god spouting and church going politicians are known for) has at the least not harmed their political careers, and arguably has been of substantial benefit.

Another popular example of a successful group that are well know to have spiritual and/or religious leanings and hence to be active in prayer are musicians and artists. And again one need not produce statistical evidence to substantiate, but if you are an art or music lover, my point should be made here as well.

And just for chuckles, as it fits all of LeVay's criteria for success, we have the religious leaders, many of whom can clearly be called successes by whatever reasonable set of terms you wish to assign them given the context.

I am in no way making any claims as to the efficacy of prayer, nor do I need to in order to make it abundantly clear that LeVay is wrong when he says "If we hope and pray for something to come about, we will not act in a positive way which will make it happen." and such similar claims.
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real life
 
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Reply Fri 13 Jan, 2006 09:59 pm
Brandon9000 wrote:
real life wrote:
When I pray and I receive what I have asked for, often something completely beyond my influence or control, I don't think I can describe that as counterproductive. Not at all.

Psychologically harmful? Hardly. It's actually quite the opposite.

So you claim. But it is undesirable to believe in a magical, imaginary protector because you can't distinguish between what you wish to be true and what the evidence suggests.


Believing in something imaginary was not addressed in my post.

When I receive an answer regarding what I have prayed for, it is not imaginary. When I receive the answer, I am not wishing it was true; it has happened.
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Doktor S
 
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Reply Fri 13 Jan, 2006 11:53 pm
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It is on clear record that there are and have been a substantial number of very successful businessman who were quite religious (and hence one can well argue, pray). I need not produce statistical evidence to substantiate my point because LeVay did not say that some arbitrary percentage of (for example) businessman were diminished by prayer he made a blanket statement: "If we hope and pray for something to come about, we will not act in a positive way which will make it happen."

As I already explained why such a statistical analysis wouldn't be useful or even really possible, your claim stands as unprovable as mine. The difference being, mine is based in psychologically proven behavior.
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In the political arena it seems rather clear that many US politicians spout references to god with clockwork regularity, so I feel safe to say that prayer (which we may well assume goes hand in hand with all the god spouting and church going politicians are known for) has at the least not harmed their political careers, and arguably has been of substantial benefit.

Now it seem's like you are trying to 'win' this conversation rather than have it. If you honestly can't see motivation for ANY politician in the USA to claim some sort of religious affiliation than you don't know politics very well.
It's about PR, not truth.
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Another popular example of a successful group that are well know to have spiritual and/or religious leanings and hence to be active in prayer are musicians and artists. And again one need not produce statistical evidence to substantiate, but if you are an art or music lover, my point should be made here as well.

Ok, ball's in your court. Let's see evidence that more successful musicians and artists have imaginary friends and pray to them than those that don't.
Why do you feel this point must stand without evidence?
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And just for chuckles, as it fits all of LeVay's criteria for success, we have the religious leaders, many of whom can clearly be called successes by whatever reasonable set of terms you wish to assign them given the context.

I forward that being a 'religious leader' is more about how others see you than how you really are. Do you think ALL of them buy the BS that puts food onto their table? I have serious doubts.
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am in no way making any claims as to the efficacy of prayer, nor do I need to in order to make it abundantly clear that LeVay is wrong when he says "If we hope and pray for something to come about, we will not act in a positive way which will make it happen." and such similar claims.

You have yet to do so. try harder, but be honest this time.
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Treya
 
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Reply Sat 14 Jan, 2006 12:04 am
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The Satanist realizes that man, and the action and reaction of the universe, is responsible for everything, and doesn't mislead himself into thinking that someone cares.


Dok I must commend you on this if it is really how you live your life. (no sarcasm intended) I lived a long time believing exactly this and I wasn't fairing well with it at all.

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No longer will we sit back and accept "fate" without doing anything about it, just because it says so in Chapter such and such, Psalm so and so - and that's that!


I find this interesting because you know... honestly speaking... there are a lot of christians out there who think that being "saved" means a free ride. They get to sit on a high seat, looking down on others, and God is just going to hand them whatever they want. Of course a lot of churches teach this... and they choose to believe it... umm... yeah... I'll stop there... I do believe everyone has a destiny, however I don't believe that destiny is handed to us. You get out of life what you give into it. Just my opinion though...

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The Satanist knows that praying does absolutely no good - in fact, it actually lessens the chance of success, for the devoutly religious too often sit back complacently and pray for a situation which, if they were to do something about it on their own, could be accomplished much quicker!


hmmmm... now this I would have to disagree with. I have seen the power of prayer work in my own life. Yeah, I can hear it now... Prove it hep... prove it... right? You show me how to prove it to you and I will gladly oblige that request... until then... there's not much I can do... So I guess it remains a mystery to some... (or else... what is it... me and my "imaginary friend" can just skip off into the sunset? LOL) ok sorry, moving on...

However I must agree that as I said before there is this idea that "salvation" means a free ride. Everything handed to you on a silver platter. It is unfortunate you see... Complacency is another unfortunate side effect of christianity at times. Though I certainly don't believe it's limited to christianity only. I believe life is all about balance. Knowing when to speak, and when to shut yer trap. Knowing when to act on something, and when to just ride it out. Life is full of circumstances we can't always control. Sometimes you just gotta roll with the punches, bounce back up, and move on.

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The Satanist shuns terms such as "hope" and "prayer" as they are indicative of apprehension. If we hope and pray for something to come about, we will not act in a positive way which will make it happen.


Well... I have found quite the opposite true in my own life. I lived without hope for 19 years. To be frank it sucked. I wanted to die. I felt unloved, un-needed, unwanted, despised, hateful, vengeful, and ridiculed just to mention a few of the things I struggled with on a daily basis. All I thought about was death. I thought maybe then the pain I felt inside would stop. After all if you die you become nothing, so the things that effect you greatly here in this life can't effect you when that life is gone. I even prayed to die. Begged to die. Because I couldn't see past the hurts I carried with me every day. It was hope in something outside of myself, outside of my experiences, that gave me the courage to take the steps I needed to take to get to where I am today.

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The Satanist, realizing that anything he gets is of his own doing, takes command of the situation instead of praying to God for it to happen.


One of the common misconceptions about christianity or believing in God is that God owes us something somehow. I don't think it's intentional that people think or act like this, but I see it a lot. But I believe we all have a brain for a reason... to USE it. Not to just follow blindly because someone says this is the right way. Something to keep in mind though is that we can't control every situation that happens in life. To believe so is foolish. We can make good choices and do the best we can, but there's just somethings that are out of our reach. You can't control when your parents die, a friend, a foe, a pet. You can't control if it rains or snows on any given day. You can't control that some drunken idiot ran a stop sign 100 ft in front of you and you hit him and end up in the hospital. How can you take command in that? Really? In order to do so would require for one to be able to control all those around them as well...

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Positive thinking and positive action add up to results.


Dok, not trying to be negative towards you or what you believe. All I have to go on is what I've experienced personally. While I believe there is truth in this statement... I have yet to see a person claiming to be a satanist who has shown any sign of positive thinking or action in any form. If a person subscribes to a belief and says they live by it, shouldn't there be actions to follow it? Shouldn't it be evident in their life in one form or fashion?

So I'm curious now... who wrote the satanic bible anyway?
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fresco
 
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Reply Sat 14 Jan, 2006 01:03 am
Doktor S,

Are you prepared to consider the possibility that "control" by ANY "agency", whether it be human or celestial is a limited concept ? This is the position of scientists and philosophers who have investigated the nature of "causality" and found it to be a psychological projection onto "the world".
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Chumly
 
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Reply Sat 14 Jan, 2006 01:44 am
Doktor S wrote:
As I already explained why such a statistical analysis wouldn't be useful or even really possible, your claim stands as unprovable as mine. The difference being, mine is based in psychologically proven behavior.
My claim need not rely on statistics because LeVay makes a blanket statement: "If we hope and pray for something to come about, we will not act in a positive way which will make it happen". So unless you are willing to assert that no businessman who prays is or ever has been successful (a dubious claim at best) then one cannot accept LeVay's blanket statement as per businessmen.

Check out Walt Disney "Thus, whatever success I have had in bringing clean, informative entertainment to people of all ages, I attribute in great part to my Congregational upbringing and my lifelong habit of prayer". http://www.disneydreamer.com/Waltfaith.htm

Check out Kellogg "The first modern and commercial cereal foods were created by the American Seventh-day Adventists. Strict vegetarian, the Adventists formed the Western Health Reform Institute in the 1860s. The Institute was later renamed the Battle Creek Sanitarium after its location in Battle Creek, Michigan. The Adventists manufactured, promoted, and sold wholesome cereals".
http://inventors.about.com/library/inventors/blcereal.htm
Doktor S wrote:
Now it seem's like you are trying to 'win' this conversation rather than have it. If you honestly can't see motivation for ANY politician in the USA to claim some sort of religious affiliation than you don't know politics very well. It's about PR, not truth.
If you are going to try and assess the intent and sincerity of prayers, (or any internalized intentions for that matter) then all bets are off. In that case the argument is wholly subjective and can be argued any way one chooses and we float right into Sophistry / Logical Fallacies. You might as well then say anyone who is successful at anything who prays is insincere in their prayers. The fact of the matter remains that many politicians are religious, those same politicians pray and those same politicians are successful.
Doktor S wrote:
Ok, ball's in your court. Let's see evidence that more successful musicians and artists have imaginary friends and pray to them than those that don't. Why do you feel this point must stand without evidence?
Check out my text as I never said "more successful" you did. I do not need to make that assertion to make my argument. All I need to show is that there are musicians that pray that are "successful". Further I don't feel this point must stand without evidence and do provide such.

Check out Bob Dylan http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2001/121/43.0.html

Check out Bob Marley http://www.christiancourier.com/questions/rastafarianism.htm
Doktor S wrote:
I forward that being a 'religious leader' is more about how others see you than how you really are. Do you think ALL of them buy the BS that puts food onto their table? I have serious doubts.
ALL of them do not have to be sincere in their efforts to pray to fully make my point on this particular alone, as long as some religious leaders are successful and sincerely pray my point is fully made in light of LeVay's blanket statement: "If we hope and pray for something to come about, we will not act in a positive way which will make it happen". Unless you are willing to assert that no religious leader has any faith or sincerity?

Doc, I have a gig this Saturday so it might be Sunday l before I review your repsonse. Chummmmmm
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