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Prayer=weakness

 
 
Intrepid
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 09:57 pm
ditto
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Questioner
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 09:58 pm
John Creasy wrote:
You obviously have the wrong assumption, that anyone who prays must just sit around and wait for things to happen.This is a common misconception by people with no true knowledge of spirituality.


And who's making assumptions now?

When people turn to prayer to the detriment of using common sense, prayer leads to harm. Simple as that.

Pray to God, but keep the shotgun loaded. Isn't that how it goes?
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Intrepid
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 10:00 pm
You seem to equate prayer with stupidity. You are wrong. Do you think that common sense is absent to those who pray? It is one thing to pray and another to recognize the answer to that prayer.
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 10:02 pm
Questioner Wrote:

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Beg all you want MA, despite what you may believe, you're not the only one with expereince with addiction. The need to pray to a god that you believe will solve your ills or those of your family can be just as furtive as the pull of cocaine. There are those out there that are quite simply put, addicted to it.


I can see this in the light you put on it. I was thinking of the differences in the feelings. I never found peace and comfort while I was using. Never.
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John Creasy
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 10:02 pm
Questioner wrote:

When people turn to prayer to the detriment of using common sense, prayer leads to harm. Simple as that.


I've never met anyone who fits this description. All the people I know who pray, do the same things as you. They just ask for guidance in the morning, and give thanks at night. Peace.
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Doktor S
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 10:05 pm
Momma Angel wrote:
I beg to differ. Drug addiction is absolutely nothing like prayer or religious beliefs. Nothing at all. I can tell you that from experience.

Humm
Drugs provide an escape into fantasy
Religion provides an escape into fantasy.

Drugs provides a reason, a crutch, to deal with everyday life
Religion provides a reason, a crutch, to deal with everyday life

Drugs offer a sense of comradery and 'fellowship' with other drug users.
Religion offer a sense of comradery and 'fellowship' with other religion users.

Drugs changes the way you think and act.
Religion changes the way you think and act.

Drugs stifle thinking
Religion stifles thinking.

Nope...nothing in common whatsoever....
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Questioner
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 10:05 pm
Intrepid wrote:
You seem to equate prayer with stupidity. You are wrong. Do you think that common sense is absent to those who pray? It is one thing to pray and another to recognize the answer to that prayer.


I'm not attempting to equate prayer with stupidity, thus the use of the word 'when' in the statement 'when people turn to prayer to the detriment. . .'

If you weren't so anxious to find insult where none is intended perhaps you would have noted that for yourself.
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Questioner
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 10:06 pm
John Creasy wrote:
Questioner wrote:

When people turn to prayer to the detriment of using common sense, prayer leads to harm. Simple as that.


I've never met anyone who fits this description. All the people I know who pray, do the same things as you. They just ask for guidance in the morning, and give thanks at night. Peace.


Then you don't know the type of people of which I speak. When you've met everyone in the world that prays then the above statement will hold more weight in this context.
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John Creasy
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 10:09 pm
Doktor S wrote:
Momma Angel wrote:
I beg to differ. Drug addiction is absolutely nothing like prayer or religious beliefs. Nothing at all. I can tell you that from experience.

Humm
Drugs provide an escape into fantasy
Religion provides an escape into fantasy.

Drugs provides a reason, a crutch, to deal with everyday life
Religion provides a reason, a crutch, to deal with everyday life

Drugs offer a sense of comradery and 'fellowship' with other drug users.
Religion offer a sense of comradery and 'fellowship' with other religion users.

Drugs changes the way you think and act.
Religion changes the way you think and act.

Drugs stifle thinking
Religion stifles thinking.

Nope...nothing in common whatsoever....


You should know satan boy.
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 10:10 pm
Doktor S Wrote:

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Humm
Drugs provide an escape into fantasy
Religion provides an escape into fantasy.

God is not a fantasy. God is real. Just because you don't believe in Him does not make Him any less real.

Drugs provides a reason, a crutch, to deal with everyday life
Religion provides a reason, a crutch, to deal with everyday life

A relationship with God provides a better way of life to those that believe. With that relationship we learn to live our lives to the fullest and try to make ourselves better.

Drugs offer a sense of comradery and 'fellowship' with other drug users.
Religion offer a sense of comradery and 'fellowship' with other religion users.

God provides REAL fellowship, whereas drug buddies are just that, drug buddies. Once you stop doing the drugs, they are gone. God never leaves us.

Drugs changes the way you think and act.
Religion changes the way you think and act.

Believing in God does change the way you think and act. It helps you to learn to love others, be kind, and not be selfish. Drugs, do the exact opposite.

Drugs stifle thinking
Religion stifles thinking.

God does not stifle your thinking. God provides the answers for us. Drugs kill your brain cells.

Nope...nothing in common whatsoever....

That is the only comment I agree with. Nothing in common whatsoever.


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Doktor S
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 10:33 pm
some ignorant christian wrote:

You should know satan boy.

gotcha.
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Doktor S
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 10:46 pm
Momma Angel wrote:
Doktor S Wrote:

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Humm
Drugs provide an escape into fantasy
Religion provides an escape into fantasy.

God is not a fantasy. God is real. Just because you don't believe in Him does not make Him any less real.

Right. Prove it. One failed refutation.
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Drugs provides a reason, a crutch, to deal with everyday life
Religion provides a reason, a crutch, to deal with everyday life

A relationship with God provides a better way of life to those that believe. With that relationship we learn to live our lives to the fullest and try to make ourselves better.

Rhetoric. Two failed refutations
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Drugs offer a sense of comradery and 'fellowship' with other drug users.
Religion offer a sense of comradery and 'fellowship' with other religion users.

God provides REAL fellowship, whereas drug buddies are just that, drug buddies. Once you stop doing the drugs, they are gone. God never leaves us.

LOL. so people never go from being religious to non-religious? Seriously...
Three failed refutations.
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Drugs changes the way you think and act.
Religion changes the way you think and act.

Believing in God does change the way you think and act. It helps you to learn to love others, be kind, and not be selfish. Drugs, do the exact opposite.

History shows that religion does not cause the behavior you claim. Religion has certainly brought about more death, exponentially, than drug use.
But regardless of that, you are basically agreeing with this similarity while trying to distance the two with special considerations that have nothing to do with how the two are similar, that being they both change behavior.
refutation failed miserably.
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Drugs stifle thinking
Religion stifles thinking.

God does not stifle your thinking. God provides the answers for us. Drugs kill your brain cells.

HAH!
Your own scripture tells you to value faith over reason. Faith is the antithesis to thinking.
Refutation failed, but the unintentional irony is worth some points.
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Nope...nothing in common whatsoever....

That is the only comment I agree with. Nothing in common whatsoever.


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If this is so you will have to do better to show it. Looks to me like they have tons in common.
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 10:53 pm
Well, I would submit that since you are not a believer and I am that maybe I might have a bit more experience in this area? I can only tell you what it is like for me. And I did. You don't have to accept it.
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Doktor S
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jan, 2006 11:59 pm
So you admit in only meing interested in what it is like 'for you', and not 'what it is like'. This trend that you display reveals a lot about your psychology Wink
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fresco
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jan, 2006 12:24 am
Mother Angel,

How much has your relationship with drugs influenced your religious faith ?

I sympathize with all who have turned to (=used) religion to solve personal problems but this may preclude them from "objective" debate.
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jan, 2006 06:51 am
Belief in God may be helpful initially in turning away from drug/and or alcohol dependency, but IMO is is trading one addiction for another. In all cases the motivation is the same. A person abuses drugs and/or alcohol in order to evade the necessity of thinking for himself.

Relying on something outside of one's self, as in blind adherence to a religion, accomplishes the same purpose, and is equally as detrimental to the person. He has NOT solved his problems, but has simply deflected them.
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John Creasy
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jan, 2006 07:35 am
Phoenix32890 wrote:
Belief in God may be helpful initially in turning away from drug/and or alcohol dependency, but IMO is is trading one addiction for another. In all cases the motivation is the same. A person abuses drugs and/or alcohol in order to evade the necessity of thinking for himself.

Relying on something outside of one's self, as in blind adherence to a religion, accomplishes the same purpose, and is equally as detrimental to the person. He has NOT solved his problems, but has simply deflected them.


If you just sit around and wait for your prayers to be answered, sure. The majority of people of faith do not fall into this category. Faith plus action.
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jan, 2006 07:44 am
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If you just sit around and wait for your prayers to be answered, sure. The majority of people of faith do not fall into this category. Faith plus action.


John Creasy- Ok, that sounds reasonable to me. So maybe it is not the prayer that gets the results, but the action. I do think though, that there are people, maybe not in the majority, but enough that their numbers are significant, that rely mainly on prayer to working through their problems.

On the other hand, I have mentioned that meditation is often helpful to calm the mind, and allow the brain to plumb its depths, often allowing people to come up with methods to deal with their difficulties. Is it not within the realm of possibility that to believers, prayer serves the same purpose as meditation? If that is so, it is not some deity who is assisting a person, but the ability of that person to expand the capabilities of his own mind? In other words, are the religious goving their God credit for something that they are accomplishing by themselves?
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jan, 2006 07:59 am
Doktor S Wrote:

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So you admit in only meing interested in what it is like 'for you', and not 'what it is like'. This trend that you display reveals a lot about your psychology


I cannot tell you positively what anyone else feels about anything. Drugs, pain, happiness, sadness, God, etc. I tell you what is my experience because that is what I know. I think you understood that.

fresco Wrote:

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Mother Angel,

How much has your relationship with drugs influenced your religious faith ?

I sympathize with all who have turned to (=used) religion to solve personal problems but this may preclude them from "objective" debate.


I quit drugs before I became religious, fresco. And I do not see how being religious should preclude anyone from objective debate at all. I would say if one was using drugs that would preclude them from objectivity in total. So now, if you are religious you aren't capable of objective debate? Why is that?

Phoenix Wrote:

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Belief in God may be helpful initially in turning away from drug/and or alcohol dependency, but IMO is is trading one addiction for another. In all cases the motivation is the same. A person abuses drugs and/or alcohol in order to evade the necessity of thinking for himself.

Relying on something outside of one's self, as in blind adherence to a religion, accomplishes the same purpose, and is equally as detrimental to the person. He has NOT solved his problems, but has simply deflected them.


Phoenix, in my case, this is completely wrong. I have not traded one addiction for another. I know longer have the problems I once had. I don't take drugs anymore. I don't want to take drugs anymore. I have gone to counseling for my problems as well as become closer to God. I have faith but I agree with John Creasy. Faith without works is dead. Overcoming the problems in my life has not been an easy thing to do. I had to take a good long hard look at myself and see the things that needed to be changed. When God lifted that weight off my shoulders I looked at it that is was hope. It was hope that He was there and He would help me through my problems. I never for one second expected Him to just fix everything. I had to do my part.

God did not just take all my problems and make them disappear. I have to take responsibility for myself and my actions. Those actions are guided by what I believe God wants me to do, yes, but they are still MY actions and MY responsibility. So, if believing in God causes me to care for other people more than myself, having compassion when I had none, happiness when I had none, and courage where I had none, then I am going to believe in God forever because in my relationship with Him, I have become so much more than I ever was before. If following the teachings of Christ brings me the joy that it does then I am going to do just that.

Phoenix, I just read your last post to John Creasy and thought I'd put my two cents in there. If I were to start looking to me to solve my problems again, I'd be right back where I was. Thinking I can do these things on my own is what got me into trouble in the first place. "I" is what gets most of us in trouble IMO in the first place. Looking at the world around me, there is no way I am going to look to "man". Like Chai Tea says, man lies. She's right, man lies and I will add God does not. I would look to God before I would look to any human being.
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John Creasy
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jan, 2006 10:30 am
Phoenix32890 wrote:
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If you just sit around and wait for your prayers to be answered, sure. The majority of people of faith do not fall into this category. Faith plus action.


John Creasy- Ok, that sounds reasonable to me. So maybe it is not the prayer that gets the results, but the action. I do think though, that there are people, maybe not in the majority, but enough that their numbers are significant, that rely mainly on prayer to working through their problems.

On the other hand, I have mentioned that meditation is often helpful to calm the mind, and allow the brain to plumb its depths, often allowing people to come up with methods to deal with their difficulties. Is it not within the realm of possibility that to believers, prayer serves the same purpose as meditation? If that is so, it is not some deity who is assisting a person, but the ability of that person to expand the capabilities of his own mind? In other words, are the religious goving their God credit for something that they are accomplishing by themselves?


That is possible.

"Prayer is when you talk to God, meditation is when God talks to you." Some famous guy said that, but I think that is what most people of faith would say.
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