You Just Don't Bomb Other People's Kids
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do you do with other people's kids.... Well, you feed them, of course. You figure out what's in your fridge that resembles what they're used to at home. You talk to them. You find out if they would like to make a picture with paints or magic markers (though you secretly hope they say magic markers which are so much easier to deal with). You make them feel safe and loved when they come up to you looking a little scared wondering why mom hasn't picked them up yet, and you say she's almost here, she just called as she was leaving work -- you're hoping that accident on the Parkway isn't going to add another hour to this kid's wait -- and wouldn't you like to pick out a video...Magic School Bus? Dora the Explorer? You find out if they want white milk or chocolate milk, chicken nuggets or meatballs, a Power Puff Girls cup or a Barbie cup.
These are what you do for other people's kids.
One of the things you don't do to other people's kids is bomb them and burn them alive. And blow the limbs off their little sisters and blind their little brothers. And send their mothers (stained with blood and stuck all over with little pieces of broken glass) running away from flames, shrieking with grief.
You just really don't do that.
And you don't kill their daddies. And you don't steal their countries and their assets. And as for how you act when a kid comes up to you and says he's thirsty, well, you find out if he likes ice cubes or just plain water, sippy cup or big boy cup or the Spiderman sports bottle or would you rather have the last inch of apple juice from the bottle in the fridge. You don't cut off their drinking water and make them desperate with thirst and sick with cholera.
And let me tell you, you just do not turn off their electricity! You're supposed to turn on the night-light so they aren't scared. Why on earth would you cut off their electricity?!
And you certainly don't leave radioactive containers lying around for them to drink out of. Or unexploded bombs for them to play with. You don't make their moms afraid to go out for fear of being robbed and raped. You don't break down their door in the middle of the night and hold machine guns to their older brothers' faces.
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These are things you just don't do to other people's kids. Whether they live next door to you, down the street from you, across the country or across the globe. You just don't do these things to other people's kids.
Mary Walworth is a speech-language therapist and mother living in central New Jersey.
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