sozobe wrote:Maybe do something to make the room more familiar, too -- the way I understand it, it's the same room, but everything that was in it was taken out and the new bed is the only thing currently in it. I'm not sure if any of the stuff that WAS in it can be put back, but maybe stuff from her playroom, or anything that is familiar to her.
that is a great idea as well... I never looked at it that way.
I just see it as the same room and forget, everything that was familiar is now gone. Except one big heavy dresser, but even it is turned around...
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maybe insisting that your husband take a sick day to give you a break, something.
he did this yesterday..
but he didnt have much time so I only got about 4 hours and that was taking turns with Jillian..
and that DID help a bunch..
he gets more time on the 1st.. ( friday) I think I will ask him to do it again if this is still a problem..
or have him do it just because I will probally need the break anyways..
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- New room (even if it's the same room, just rearranged)
- New bed
- Scary experiences
- Scary experiences specifically associated with falling asleep
- Everyone getting more and more upset and getting each other more and more upset.
Now that im a bit calmer, i am realizing these things and seeing it through her little eyes..
this is alot on her plate.
And i really screwed this up..
but flip side.. I can see what I did wrong and change it, and now that the screaming makes a bit more sense, maybe i wont be so off set by it again..
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You're going to have to be the calm and steady one to get her through this, as difficult as it may be. I agree with DrewDad's advice for what to do, specifically. It won't happen right away, and that's where it's going to be really tough -- when it almost happens, and doesn't -- but she'll calm down.
Definatly.
We are going to do another room 'tour ' when she is done with her sandwich..
then I will have Ian give her one as well when I am working..