Is this normal? (a sex Q)

stuh505 wrote:

I remember once in high school, word got out that I had slept with this girl...and didn't finish, and I became a laughing stock.

Proves what I think, in the early days people only have sex so they can tell their friends about it.
Seems very odd to tell a whole school about something as intimate as that.
Sadly the equivelent still goes on in older age too.

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It seems odd that the OP is aware of time passing during the act. If so, it may point to one reason why his orgasm is delayed.

There are various sex manuals which attempt to train the male to delay gratification, using techniques such as edging. But I believe after a half hour or so of coitus, soreness in the female could become an issue, no matter how good the lubrication. It is, after all, plain and simple friction.

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How old are you? Comfort and being able to let go comes with practice. If you try, you can control the time you orgasm. Most guys can come in 3 minutes but there are ways to delay orgasm to enjoy the moment. 30 minutes of sex is not a long bout. A hour is getting pretty long. I think you are worrying about it which is why it takes a hour sometimes. Relax. It will happen.

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Proves what I think, in the early days people only have sex so they can tell their friends about it.
Seems very odd to tell a whole school about something as intimate as that.
Sadly the equivelent still goes on in older age too.

Excuse me, no. I shared part of this story to be helpful, not to open myself up for investigation. You're flat wrong and I'm not going to explain why.

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Stuh, no one here at A2K is laughing at you, I mean comon, just because you were in high school, at your sexual peak, (giggle), and couldn't finish with some little hottie (GIGGLE), there is no reason for any of us to - oh **** LOL.

OMFG HE COULDN'T FINISH!!! LOL LOL LOL

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im 19 and im not tryin to delay anything
And yes i was aware of time after a set point i got restless and i seen the clock

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What, I'll show you how to finish... Razz

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Calm down my testosteron overloaded friends,
the young man is only 19 years old and entitled to hold
it until the cows come home.

If the girl starts getting bored than she should be
able to speed things up with various techniques.

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edgarblythe wrote:

Hmmm. Oh yeah, sex. Beats me.

ROTFL.

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stuh505 wrote:

II haven't done a study but that doesn't sound abnormal to me. Girls don't want you to finish in 5 minutes anyway do they?

Girls?

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Vex86 wrote:

im 19 and im not tryin to delay anything
And yes i was aware of time after a set point i got restless and i seen the clock

There could be any number of reasons for this Vex. It can be a physical matter, that a doctor could verify and remedy with medication.

It can also be a mental matter. If you watch a ton of porn and masturbate frequently, your partner (for any number of reasons) may not meet the required level of stimulation that you are accostomed to. In such a case it could very well be difficult for you to reach climax.

Your best bet is to check with a doctor first, and rule out the physical aspects. If you are so inclined to do so.

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