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Is this normal? (a sex Q)

 
 
Vex86
 
Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 01:55 am
First off i dont do drugs and i dont drink
Now is it normal for it to take longer than 30mins to a hour to get off?
And yes i mean for a guy not a girl and yes im asking b/c its that way for me.
If its not norm could it be something medical or just in my head?
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Merry Andrew
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 06:50 am
You lucky dog! Most of the rest of us guys worry about premature ejaculation, not about being able to sustain that state for "30mins to an hour." I suspect some of the gals on this forum will be clamoring for your phone number soon.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 07:13 am
oh boy, your gonna get alot of funny answers here.. hehe

BUT- seriously, yes. That is 'normal'
Longer then AVERAGE.. but normal.

So long as the act of ejaculation itself doesnt hurt, and you can still achieve it.. there shouldnt be anything wrong.

If this is happening with a NEW partner, it could be a bit psychological.. but that is all I would say.

Sometimes, it just takes a while.. and thats ok
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stuh505
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 08:34 am
I remember once in high school, word got out that I had slept with this girl...and didn't finish, and I became a laughing stock.

But men are not like vending machines, sex is more about thoughts and emotions than pure physical stimulation.

A lot of it can depend on your comfort level with the girl, and how good she is at evoking the right thoughts.

I haven't done a study but that doesn't sound abnormal to me. Girls don't want you to finish in 5 minutes anyway do they? This way you get more fun time. And you have a much better shot at...um...simultaneous Smile
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edgarblythe
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 11:31 am
Hmmm. Oh yeah, sex. Beats me.
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Vex86
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 01:31 pm
Well umm i feel alil bit better now
Just kind of had what happen to stuh happen to me last night.
Guess it got to me alil bit. Tho the hour+ still is my "norm" i just get
the feeling it shouldnt take that long.

And may i ask what is average?
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Deler
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 03:27 pm
I'm with Edgar, sex is just a distant memory. But from what I can recall getting off isn't the fun part
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CalamityJane
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 03:35 pm
Vex86 wrote:
And may i ask what is average?


You don't want average, young man, trust me!
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gustavratzenhofer
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 03:39 pm
The longest I ever lasted was 3 months, 12 days, 4 hours, 17 minutes and 11 seconds.

Ok...ok....I lied about the first four numbers.
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CalamityJane
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 03:45 pm
I don't think red squirrel will hold out longer anyway.
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Merry Andrew
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 03:47 pm
Your new avatar blows me away, Calam.
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gustavratzenhofer
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 03:52 pm
Jane's avatar is quite tantalizing, Merry. I agree.
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CalamityJane
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 03:53 pm
As it represents the true me, I'm pleased as well. Wink
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Merry Andrew
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 04:07 pm
Hell, if I used an avatar that actually represents the 'real' me, I'd scare off half the A2K membership.
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CalamityJane
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 05:07 pm
Too late Andrew, we already know that you're a pleasant and charming guy Wink
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Vex86
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 06:26 pm
CalamityJane wrote:


You don't want average, young man, trust me!


Well hearing "Im getting swore" or "Im getting tired" isnt a good thing
ether now is it?
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CalamityJane
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 07:11 pm
No, but she who tires after 30 minutes already,
might either need some endurance training,
or a hands-on lesson in how to heat up the
temperature.
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stuh505
 
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Reply Sun 13 Nov, 2005 08:12 pm
Quote:
Well hearing "Im getting swore" or "Im getting tired" isnt a good thing
ether now is it?


Hehe, no, it's not really a good thing.

But it's NOT going to happen when you're thinking, "aw crap I gotta finish because she's getting tired" !!

What you need is simply more and better foreplay

And perhaps some creativity to get things interesting

Once you start to get more confident and comfortable and start simply enjoying it, things will work out better
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Vex86
 
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Reply Mon 14 Nov, 2005 03:10 am
Quote:
But it's NOT going to happen when you're thinking, "aw crap I gotta finish because she's getting tired" !!


Yea i learned that the other night it just dont work.

Quote:
No, but she who tires after 30 minutes already,
might either need some endurance training,
or a hands-on lesson in how to heat up the
temperature.


That last one doesnt sound bad at all Razz
Hell id just be happy if there were no teeth involvid in one area Rolling Eyes
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Lord Ellpus
 
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Reply Mon 14 Nov, 2005 04:13 am
When I was a novice, I also used to last for 30 minutes, but with strict concentration, focus and practise I now consider myself an expert, as I have got it down to less than a minute.
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