It's seems to me that you two need to move on because if you have the same conversation everyweek..deep inside it means that either you are ready to move on or he is trying to give u a hint that he wants to move on but he doesn't know how to tell you. Do what u think is right! It's your first relationship, Sweetie, their is more men out there in this world and someday you will find your soul mate . Go with your instint cause it's more likly to be the right move.
im currently in a long-distance relationship, and a very very serious one at that...
-love is enough to hold two people together, if its true enough
-living together right away may not have been the best because i think you need to get to know someone really well before you do that
-and yes, everyone goes through those times where you wonder if he/she's the one or if ther is someone better
-bottom line...are you with this person because you in love or are you afraid of gettin hurt? do you ask yourself if there is someone else because you hope there is, or are you just unsure and nervous about your current relationship
-either way, there is a reason why you guys are still together...you just have to decide if they are the right ones or just the easy and safe ones
*I am certain that many relationships DO go through a period like
what you're describing. Especially if each of you expects the other
to "make you happy". I have been through it, I am watching my
daughters go through it & I am glad to be past that little knot in the
road.
*In my case, I seriously needed to "GET A LIFE" for myself, and not
be overly dependent on my partner to fulfill all of my needs. In fact
it is unrealistic to be dependent on one's partner to fulfill many of
your needs.
*Relationships need to find that slender balancing point between
independence & individuality AND togetherness & interdependence.
It is a wonderful goal that I consistently strive towards. It is too easy
to look to one's partner and say; "Why am I not happy"- or - if I
am not happy then this relationship must be a big mistake." Think
about how silly that sounds, how childish and immature. Another
thing about relationships is that they are living, breathing and
growing things. They have a life of their own & so they must
be nurtured. Since each of you maintain a separate and individual
life of your own ... when you come together ... you have lots of new
and interesting things to share with your partner about what is going
on in your life. So, no more boring each other to tears. Isn't love
grand.
i think that -yes- all relationships go through this.
all.
well maybe not ALL- but most..
mine has..
i think its just part of life...
but one thing..
how many times has it repeated? if its over 3 .. or 5 times.. then I think maybe u two worry too much..
and maybe its because you're not meant to be together..
i dont know..
