@Pookie53,
I put "happiness" at the top of the list. That includes my family and friends, not some demented creation of any gods whose idea of a kind, loving father doesn't exist. The bible is full of vengeance by your god.
It also includes trying to live a healthy and rich life.
I love world travel, and I have seen over 150 countries - some are repeats.
I have friends all over the world including Australia, Singapore, Bhutan, Tanzania, Moscow, all over England, Paris, Germany, and all over the US.
I have also met many a2k members in Chicago, London, Lippstadt, Austin, and San Francisco. I will meet them again next month and in September.
I enjoy life for the now, not for some promise of an after-life.