At one time there were many things that I would never tell my spouse.
I've since forgotten them.
One thing I wouldn't tell him about is the back channel conversation I'm having right now.
Every so often Mr. Noddy does or says something absolutely preposterous--completely irrational. Nothing is gained by pointing these moments out.
Every so often I'll haul out a romantic memory of my life before Mr. Noddy. That's my romantic past, not his. He has no need to know.
I've made my opinions clear about several members of Mr. Noddy's family in the past. There is no need for me to repeat these low opinions to him.
Silence can be a sign of love.
Noddy24 wrote:Silence can be a sign of love.
I love this!
Such a good thread!
I also have something which I want to hide during my whole life.
Considering what I HAVE been told, I am hoping and praying that Bear has no secrets.
squinney wrote:Considering what I HAVE been told, I am hoping and praying that Bear has no secrets.
We're with you squinney...
I dont think bear COULD keep a secret. ;-)
the mister and I have shared romantic past stories..
sometimes, he more then I want to hear..
im sure sometimes i say more then im sure he wants to hear
but this has created a unique foundation for us that leaves us free to say anything..
except a handfull of things .. on my part..
I tend to wear my life on my sleeve. Mr B keeps his locked in a well concealed safe. I don't think there's much he hasn't heard, but I'm sure there's plenty I haven't.
Just because you are with someone doesn't mean that they need to know every deepest darkest things about you, especailly if they weren't around to experience it for themselves. Everyone needs a little privacy, or else might as well glue yourself to your partner because you aren't an individual anymore.
