houzer911 wrote:it doesnt HURT, as in cause pain. Its more of a...yea...can you not bite me-type thing. Sometimes when she does it its hot and it sets a certain mood. But i think the problem is she does it TOO much, you know?
Is this the same girl we were all talking about a while back that wouldn't let you kiss her?
If it is then Good Show! See, with a little time and patience things have a way of working out.
If it is the same girl, then I take it both of you are a little inexperienced, and are learning from each other.
If you care about this girl a lot, it will do you BOTH immeasurable good if you encourage her to be open about what she likes and doesn't like.
There nothing sadder than 2 people who have been together for a long time, love each other, and can discuss anything EXCEPT what goes on behind closed doors.
Here are some lines from the movie Aviator....houzer, I'm a 46 year old happily married woman, but when I heard these lines, sitting there in the theater, I just about melted....What woman wouldn't want to hear this?.....
See, I wonder what gives a beautiful woman like you pleasure
..
You see, I wanna learn what pleases you
I wanna learn everything about you.
Would you let me do that?
Would you give me that job?
OMG, just remembering how those lines were delivered..... <fan, fan, fan> I can't imagine your girlfriend not feeling like the most beautiful woman in the world that moment.
maybe you should go rent the video if you haven't seen it.
You see houzer, if you let your young lady know that you want to know what makes her tingle, you will at the same time be able to let her know what you like....It is all a give and take thing....everything about love is...
Also, if you 2 don't end up together down the line, many good things will come from this.
Both of you will know it's ok to let the other person know what you want and don't want.
Both of you will be confident in your ability to please someone.