Thank you to everyone
Thanks all.
There are as many if not more problems with the new gf who is far too bossy for me.
The ex-gf hasn't returned to bug me which is unexpected - but there's still time
Someone asked if it's happened before - yes my wife of 8 years did the same, 8 years ago. But I'm a patient man and I'll find the right one someday and until then I'm enjoying my life.
Ciao for now.