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Tue 30 Aug, 2005 08:31 pm
so im seeing this girl and i know guys will understand me when i say that im trying to figure out which way shes comfortble with in terms of moving in for a kiss.
For instance, the chin tilt, the surprise kiss, etc.
So ive been trying EVERYTHING with this girl, she doesnt like the chin tilt, i got denied on that, i asked her romantically if i could kiss her, she didnt like that either lol, im kinda lost right now.
Any thoughts?
Maybe she doesn't want you to kiss her.....?
lol yea i forgot to mention that that wasnt an issue.
Like she kisses me eventually but she does it as im saying goodbye or something. She does want to kiss me.
hmmm.... maybe she wants to do it as a good bye thing because she doesn't want it to lead on into more intimate acts? Just guessing.
How about a hand on each cheek (face cheeks)? Or a hand behind her head? Or or
Wait, no chin tilt? Apparently neither of you are of italian descent.
ahaha we both are...like we r both are hardcore italian!
thats why it boggles my mind, im usually so smoothe with this sorta thing. Its in the blood, but im dyin here!
hahahahaha.... so, you said you'd asked her?
ya like very romantically, can i have a kiss
Ok. So, how do you know she doesn't like your previously tried approaches? And, did you asked her how she'd prefer to be approached?
you need to be in a situation where you can move up next to her. cuddling close
then push a little more
keep pushing her, she'll get the idea. :wink:
no i was gonna but it was too weird as it is.
We are both very open with eachother and very laid back, so when i tried she was like...nice try casanova, you ruined the mood lol.
Beyotch!
So, you should have told her to take the lead and you'd learn from the maestro (or is that maestra?).
Chin tilt? Did you actually put your hand under her chin and tilt it to a comfortable angle? Bogart could maybe get away with that - on a good day.
also just holding her head then shoving your mouth on hers also works.
hmmmm, did you turn her chin with your hand, houzer?
she doesnt like my hand near her chin aha
ive pulled off the chin tilt numerous times before. And it has always worked. Im like known as a smoothe kisser.
Come on guy, im in EMS, we got this whole head tilt chin lift thing down with CPR, im a pro ahah. This one is confusing though!
Oh.
Well.
Yeah, no, not such a good thing. Why not just move in slow and kiss her?
maybe start by fondeling her
I could see her not liking the hand on the chin. Maybe she wears makeup and doesn't want it messed up? maybe she's prone to acne and doesn't want the extra oils? Prolly not, though, given the fact that kissing gets messy. So. It's a control thing?
What the hell is this chin tilt thing!!!!!
You could always stop trying to kiss her, she may miss the attention you give her and may make the move to kiss you.
Dont force anything, that would be horrid.
There is obviously a reason why she isnt kissing you, if you like her you will wait.
don't wait too long. otherwise it might turn into a non result yielding relationship.