Is my boyfriend being too controlling or just wants to be with me?

I don't think so.

Controlling? Indeed.

Have you two met? https://able2know.org/topic/581224-1#post-7333923

I was wondering the same thing.

He's still going to be this way even if you live together. This is a sign that he has ingrained issues with insecurity and wanting to control things at some level that are out of his control. So, take it carefully and let him know you are there for him and that you sometimes need space for yourself and your own needs. If he still continues to act possessively, let him know that is a red flag for you and you need to have him commit to getting some kind of help for it. He does need some sort of counseling to deal with this.

Have you discussed his trust issues?
The reason I ask is that I have trust issues due to infidelity in a previous relationship, and I did therapy to address them. Here’s the truth when it comes to success in a long term relationship… communication and transparency are key to making your relationship work. If you don’t trust him, or vice versa, your relationship will not last. Trust is the keystone of any relationship.