Was my wish to reconnect with my former friend wrong after I insulted her years ago ?

Hello, I learnt a few weeks ago that a former friend has cancer. In our last encounter I insulted her because she told me that she had feelings for me. First I insecure but despite it I have decided to do this and she agreed. I met her and unfortunately it was not very satisfying. First she was nice and at least seemed not so weak. I was insecure how I would react if there was a „ girlfriend “ but we were alone and I didn’t ask about it . Later she I was more „ open“ and she seemed kind of annoyed of me…. Was I insensitive because I didn’t deny my views about homosexual behavior? And mentioned my fiancé ? I am Turkish/bosniak and live currently in Germany so I hope the text is understandable