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Fri 1 Nov, 2024 08:35 am
hello! Can you please advise me what to do?
There's a girl in the next room, and I know she's a lesb. I'm ******* in love with her and I'm crazy about her.
When I moved here, she greeted me at first. then she asked me not to make any noise at night (although I'm usually pretty quiet anyway). Every time she said hello, she looked me in the eye very seriously.
after a while, she just stopped greeting me, one day I said hello to her 2 times, and she just ignored me.
Now she started avoiding me. when she sees me walking by, she leaves very quickly, rather closes the door, as if she doesn't want to see me.
although she greets all the other girls with a smile, even jokes and laughs.
Does she really hate me that much? for what?
what does it mean?
@strawwwbery,
We have no way of knowing what's going on in her mind, but perhaps she senses your feelings for her and it's making her uncomfortable, whether she's a lesbian or not. Or perhaps she's crushing on someone else. Who knows? I'd recommend you back off but I don't think she 'hates' you. That's a really strong word. Or... crazy idea ... you could simply ask her.
@Mame,
Yes, thank you, I'd rather stop seeing her at all, even if it's hard for me and I'll suffer, but I guess I'll forget her sooner