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Not ED and I’m so confused

 
 
Reply Wed 10 May, 2023 06:47 pm
I have recently started a relationship with a guy. We just had our first sexual encounter and I’m so confused. He has Type 1 diabetes and he already told me that while he can get off he doesn’t ejaculate. He’s spoken with doctors and they all seem to think this has something to do with his mismanagement of his diabetes in his early 20s. But here’s the thing he didn’t tell me (and I just need to understand more about this and I don’t want to ask him yet). He doesn’t get hard, maybe almost simi-hard but he can still have an orgasm.
I just want to know if anyone knows more about this and just some help to wrap my head around this. Is there any other medical diagnosis or term for this? ED just doesn’t seem to fit. I’m not even sure what to do a Google search for/on to understand this. I’ve never experienced this before. Any suggestions- help please!!
 
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Wed 10 May, 2023 07:08 pm
Argle bargel argle bargel.


We are not experts, we cannot give medical advice. Take this up with your boyfriend or your boyfriend and his urologist or other medical treatment provider.

None of us portray medical personnel in the movies or stayed in the Holiday Express last night.
KatieB1984
 
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Reply Wed 10 May, 2023 07:12 pm
@bobsal u1553115,
I am just trying to get some clarity on this. I’m literally trying to find out if there are other people out there that have had a similar situation or encountered this and maybe a lead on what to look up to understand more. I don’t want to embarrass this guy or make him feel bad in any way - he’s a really great guy. I’m just searching for answers.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Wed 10 May, 2023 07:17 pm
@KatieB1984,
The clarity you seek is medical information specifically about your friend.

We are not medical professionals, we know neither you nor your friend. You might try gooogling "ED and Diabetes". Yeah, I read, "it's not ED". If you're the expert, what do you need advice about?

You might ask to go with your friend to see his health care professional. We can offer no good advice.
KatieB1984
 
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Reply Wed 10 May, 2023 07:29 pm
@bobsal u1553115,
I’m just trying to figure out what’s going on so I know how to be engaged in a one on one with this person. I’m not really seeking medical advice. I appreciate the possible search info. I’d just like to know more before I accidentally embarrass him. I just don’t want him to feel like I’m making fun of him or anything- I truly want to understand a bit before I broach the subject. That’s all. This world is awful enough before everyone starts trying to tear each other down.. That’s not why I’m here asking this.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Wed 10 May, 2023 07:38 pm
@KatieB1984,
Anything you need to know is not something any of us deal with. Your question is regarding his medical condition and how it affects your future plans. WE ARE NOT THE PEOPLE YOU NEED TO BE GETTING YOUR INFORMATION FROM.
KatieB1984
 
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Reply Wed 10 May, 2023 07:40 pm
@bobsal u1553115,
Thank you for your feed back. I am glad to know you speak for everyone.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Wed 10 May, 2023 09:53 pm
@KatieB1984,
This is one of the very few cases where I do speak for all the others. Unofficially, of course.
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tsarstepan
 
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Reply Thu 11 May, 2023 07:42 am
@KatieB1984,
KatieB1984 wrote:

Thank you for your feed back. I am glad to know you speak for everyone.

She does. It's in the site's LITERAL TERMS OF SERVICE to not give out medical advice.
Region Philbis
 
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Reply Thu 11 May, 2023 09:02 am
@tsarstepan,

... she?
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izzythepush
 
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Reply Thu 11 May, 2023 11:09 am
@KatieB1984,
It's not your friend's knob that's the problem, it's your level of cognitive understanding.

How many times do you need to be told it's against the tos before it finally sinks in?
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Mame
 
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Reply Thu 11 May, 2023 01:12 pm
@KatieB1984,
Obviously nobody here has had your experience. Time to move on and Google it - see if it comes up anywhere and if there are chats or support groups for this issue.
Mame
 
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Reply Thu 11 May, 2023 01:14 pm
@Mame,
One simple Google search turned this up:

https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/dry-orgasm#:~:text=Some%20men%20can%20have%20an,some%20may%20have%20reduced%20sensation.

It's called a Dry Orgasm.

About the limpness, I have no idea. Ask your doctor or Google that.
wvgwm52
 
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Reply Sun 14 May, 2023 11:29 am
@KatieB1984,
One thing I have learned over the last 10 years is the penis doesn’t always work like supposed to .. few years ago I had a mental breakdown and along with depression and anxiety disorder .. I am now on three meds for my issues plus one more med to deal with some side effects they have had..

And these are side effects I have had to get adjusted to…. 80 percent of the time my penis doesn’t get fully hard like it used to.. and where you bf doesn’t ejaculate .. mine does maybe couple drops compared to pretty decent loads it used to give ..

There’s been a few times nothing would come out and I’d learn that when my penis get totally hard .. I’ve gone through tests and they scoped inside my penis.. which isn’t fun.. they say everything there looks fine..

Then I had to have cup with lid ready so when I’d ejaculate a little or a lot I had to catch it stick it in fridge take to place next day.. they’d test it and it showed what I was getting out of my penis was 100 percent capable of getting someone pregnant .

I’ve tried to go off the meds.. and the way I feel and the thoughts I have aren’t good ones so I have to chose whether to be on the pills and live this way or off the pills and prob do something bad .. like suicide ..


I just wanted to tell you this .. if he hasn’t had checked out tell him he should.. may be early signs of something serious .. then it may be nothing and it’s something he has gotten adjusted to

Good luck and hope he’s ok
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izzythepush
 
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Reply Sun 14 May, 2023 11:47 am
@Mame,
Mame wrote:


It's called a Dry Orgasm.




Sounds like a Madonna album
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izzythepush
 
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Reply Sun 14 May, 2023 11:50 am
@Mame,
Mame wrote:


About the limpness


So does that.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Mon 15 May, 2023 04:11 pm
@izzythepush,
"Something something, I don't know" will be the side two third cut on vinyl, and it will be the break away house music hit.

EVERYBODY in Cannes will have claimed to have had rough sex with the drummer. Allegedly. Allegedly.
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