she got mad after found out i have a wife

How does your wife feel about this?

No. But i would like to be with other girls too. I didnt do this when i was single so i want to do this now.

You're taking out your anger and frustration on people who don't warrant your anger and frustration. It's unfair and manipulative behavior. It's not ok to treat your loved ones like crap to "find" yourself.

Get a divorce, then act a fool.

Waaah-waaaah-waaah.

i need to keep the status quo, but at the same time do what i want in secret.

Stop acting like a child and grow up. Nothing you do is in "secret." You don't think your wife knows something is up? Your demeanor has changed, you're secretive and defensive. You're lying and hiding. All these things are tell-tail signs in a marriage that something just isn't right. You're on borrowed time.

If you're not happy, say so. Communicate your wants and needs. It may or may not include your wife. Or a mistress. You need "you" time, to figure out wtf you really do want.

i want to be able to be with as many girls as i want, flirt with them and have sexual relationship with them.

This is what i want.

That's fine, great even. Just not conducive to a marriage. So, the choice is to sow your wild oats in hope of something more, or, realizing this IS your life, marriage.

You don't get both.

Okay. I would give money to the girls so they have an incentive to be with me.

Is that because you have the personality of a door knob, a lack of compassion and zero morality?

You're much too kind about this troll.

i am short. i am below 5'5. so i need to incentivize them with money to make it attractive for them to be with me.

and i would like a white girl. a white European girl.

I'm sure they'll be rush, so be more specific, narrow it down to about ten lucky hopefuld.

And we Europeans find the American accent very attractive which is why Jerry Lewis is so popular in France.

Oh, look, a man with average qualities, and these are his demands.

That never, ever happens!!!