@Lenoralawn,
A one-sided relationship in most cases is called a co-dependent relationship.
Meaning one person needs the other person more then they need them.
For whatever reason the other person works with that persons goal.
A dependent ( ideal ) relationship is where both people need each other
for whatever reason. I met tons of people of both nature and it is hard
to actually see. In my book somebody has kids and I do not have kids it is
over and I am not going to touch them because of that lack of equality
between us. However some will argue "love" and "mistake" then will just
pair up with somebody because of the previous people they have associated
with.
Sometimes you have things called power-couples, or open-relationships.
Where a man and woman needs each other to bare "ideal" children or because
maybe they are LGBT and just wants to look straight on paper. Or because
harry needs sally of some sort for some reason. Like he have his and she have
hers.
It is okay to be friends with somebody, or even be close with them. YOu do not
have to sleep with them at all. Yes sex or making out might happen but that
still does not mean you could have a relationship with them. I have "clients" I
almost ended sleeping wih. I have been inside there apartments, houses, workplace, and even shared the rest-rooms, and changing areas. They have literally stripped off. I try to keep things business but many of them wants companionship or some sorta scandal in their lives.
`In your "Grandparents generation" is basically like this. Hey I am ____ friend. So ______ would get married because they were ______ with them. He have his and she have hers. People would sleep in seperate beds. Usually this came from religious practices. Even many of the colonial houses would often have men on one-side and women on the other side. Or grandparents on one side and young family on the other. The reality is that people stuck to their marital vows. That is the reason why. However it does not mean people would not reason to separate.
My grandma seperated from her husband because he was upset all the time. He could not bare the fact his wife was not a virgin and had a child before him. That usually is the killer of any relationship starting at all. Some guys will not touch a woman knowing she have a boyfriend. Point being is that beyond that they would have been together but time passed and it was another scenario all together.
Our parents generation ( the 1969ers ) you have these counter-culture-occult types mixing in with the born-again-Christian-squares. They got married and many relationships got rocky. Some people eventually just have an "open-relationship" as I mentioned before. A great example is this man who divorced his wife after he found out his grown-up children was not his at all. Imagine raising children that was not yours.
About men/boys/guys etc. We are love. Men will do just about
everything to anything for a woman. That is why the world functions the way it is. If not some kind of escape from this reality then to have as much of this world as possible. A man is not homeless because he does not want to be. He simply choose the alternative is pointless. The only reason why that man does not kill is because he still respects ( brainwashed/ingrained/implanted ) is god.
A truth is that most people do not know how to function as a continuing adult outside of being a teenager. Chances are people go through life being damaged and still dress up in the same uniform from grade school, but are fat, face has wrinkles, and possibly balding. They can not deal with being old at all. That is the difference. The most fun they had was when they were teenagers and for our generation we have to live in our twentys, thrities, and possibly our forties because of their selfishness.
What is different is the living situation. In my household we have to leave, pretend our parents are worth anything. Just to have sex inside an over-priced apartment, and eventually keep that job that is not worth our education, and whatever happens next happens. Usually the idea is people have no clue or what direction they are going into at all. Having parents who will give money to the person that does not need it, and pretend "that child is good I need to be there friend" to siblings ( who are pregnant and at home ) looking to use that person like a resource. Families being raised by lazy but functioning parents, who would rather burn their money into any other direction but their children. Take Alyssa Funke who shot-herself on her parents boat. The ultimate truth is that her parents would rather purchase the boat then pay for her college tuition, she opt to do pornography to pay for her college tuition. The propaganda tries to ignore the fact her parents was selfish and play the bully card but what the media/propaganda is trying to do is make pornography more acceptable and not promote families to actually work together. Nope. Bottom-line those same parents ( our ) parents would rather just pretend they do not have children and possibly start another family, to even dropping
their own parents into nursing homes. Our parents just do not care, nore make the investments at all into our lives. They have no game-plan, and no direction for their ( us ) children in life. Marraige is a business and is not about love, and children are also a type of business as well. In an ideal home setting the parents have matrons, maids, butlers, body-guards, and so many more. The parents would still be like children running around partying, going to adult parties, getting drunk, driving around like mad-people, and so forth. Then the kids would all be sent to private schools, and given an idea education in which they would take over the family business or start their own business, and decent work-life. No we have parents who look to the government to educate us, who looks to the government to provide income/jobs. Who looks to the government and tell the kids to conform, and pretend to be happy, and pretend to accept disrespect from people with lower education, and tell them to be slaves. But people are not slaves, and are not going to accept disrespect at all. People bite-back in the wort possible ways. I am not talking about Social-justice-losers via feminism, or LGBT, or people hiding behind their religion ( like how Israel bombed an apartment building of innocent families over two hundred people dead ). I am talking about somebody playing "Little-Red-Hen" or "Little Blue Engine" and then letting those people they called "parents", "neighbors", "citizens" all suffer. It is like how Carl Icahn literally "invited" all his employees to move to Florida with a big raise. When in reality he is leaving NYC because he wants to retire early not due to COVID-19 but due to BLM-protests. He knows and lacks faith the city will recover in the short-life-span of his life, so he would rather "Jump-ship". That is what parents ( our parents ) have been doing to us forever. They just want to jump-ship and many have jump-ship in some other form or another. It is like the loser trying to be/look "Cool" when in reality they themselves are losers in the bunch/gang/crew/party and everybody is only with them as a resource or to fuel their ego/imagination. That is what is wrong with parents. Sell the house and divorce/separated and then start a new family and pretend the other family never happen.
About people. I am going to say the ultimate truth about all people. We are all selfish, and that is never corrected. Their is no such thing as Charity, because a charity ( lawfully in USA ) has to only use %10 of it's funds for it's work and the rest could be to the owner, or whoever purpose of the charity itself. In fact Charities could be listed as tax-write-offs. Bare in mind many people whom call themselves Phalantrapists are not "heavan-providers". People literally live off their charities from usage of buildings, vehicles, and food from hosting events, doing tv-spots, and many more. All in favor of making them look like
if they are anything that is "considered good". People like Hillary and Trump who clearly are sick-twisted-animalist-sex-addicts flaunting their wealth in your face while your still trying to figure out how to turn a door-knob like a dog with it's teeth. Every once in a while somebody gives birth to a self-less person and that is the person who ultimately suffers. They know what is right from wrong and the moment they realize "hey all these people are evil" they become the evil-doer. It is like what McAfee said "I am inside here because I am free, your outside because you do what your told and accept what is allowed"
despite that. That is why you have people with $100,000 a year income and they are unable to live any kind of normal life at all. They just want to run away, from everything to anything. They are locked into a prison ( called employement ), not because they have the sheepskin but because the employer allows them to work there. They could have the same sheepskin and find out "they are not welcome" or rather put "time to leave" mentality pitted against against them. Why? because they are not following the crowd. They are not selfish. They are self-less.
About materialism. People have goals and then their is gold. You need gold to get to goals. Same reason why we have the automobile or airplane. People was free to think and able to be creative. Via funding sources or access to tools people are creative and able to do and make. The bigger problem is the migration period of the 1970's. United States had a lazy-bum problem, and wanted people to shut-up, and by that are the hippy ( politically minded ) and racism ( especially Black/Negros/African decent etc ). So you know what the US did? Just offered free housing and high wages to immigrant employers. Just as with BLM, and COVID-19 they are doing the same thing. By the dozens tons to desperate, penniless slaves from Latin-Americas, and Eastern Europe ready to accept discrimination, sexism, racism, and all they care about is upholding a job for the sake of having job. Tons of slaves from the West Indies, India, and other ideal European ( white ) people to fill the gaps. Have you not been reading the news. We need workers, we need employees. COVID has left us with nothing but the "negros" and they ( the racist ) do not want to accept equality of any sort at all. They reather have people live in fear and be
like omgsh it is a black man, who is standing up right, or a Christian who think they are better or equal to a Jew. We need to hold them down, we need to shave their heads off, we need to makeup their faces, we need to keep them
in the dark, without knoweldge, without education, and have them brainwashed with SJW, LGBT, and spend jail time. Then of course looming in the background are the Han-Chinese, Indians, Arabs, and all the other selfish people who keeps normality and functionality from peoples lives. An endlesss insanity of "Chinese Checkers", and fish eats tail, of the other fish, and the human-centerpiede being deemed normal. You could choose to worship crap
which makes you normal like a house-wife waiting for her husband coming from his high paying job, or be a minimalist and keep your bank account filled, and make the right investments. The ultimate point I am trying to make is that
You have been brainwashed from a child to want garbage and make garbage. That is all that there is in life. Without any respect for anybody or any real appreciation for anything. Again with materialism. People was brought
into the United States to replace those people who was Hippies ( political mindset ) and Negros. Those people would work and live in the ghettos ( places where nobody wants to be or is forgotten about AKA where people from other
nations live in the same way of that nation ) only to purchase their big mansion/house in another state, or nation. Nowadays some of these houses that was worth nothing ( because of the area ) is now worth millions, and people are charging high rent for their "investments". A great example is I went to college with a person from Africa. She said "If she had a million dollars she would go back to Africa and open a business and never look back". That is why we have people who are ready to sell their land because they are not from our land. If all the so called Zionist was to move to Israel and take everything with them, within years they would be penniless because most of the income is
coming from US shores. That is why materialism has taken over peoples lives. Same with various economies. China built a great big mall and realized that local Chinese are not buying or spending money. Why?
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