@Lash,
Royal matches (and those of the powerful, ie dukes, counts, earls, etc) were historically political - any love was accidental. Their practice of only marrying other royals, among other restrictions (no divorcees, e.g.) also limited their choices. Look at the Hapsburgs for a fine example. Uncle marrying niece, etc. The Queen married Philip, who I believe was her 3rd cousin. Love was usually NOT a consideration, and the Queen (and all who preceded her) treated their children as pawns. Then Diana came along and changed all that. First divorce in the royals if we don't count Henry VIII. Despite both Charles' and Diana's great unhappiness, the Queen, and supposedly The Firm, were adamantly against their divorce. But, they eventually gave in. Diana also changed the way royals mothered their children. She took them with her on royal visits and was a very active and involved mother. She was also the first to give personal interviews on tv.
This is an over-simplication, of course, but seeing her only as a mother, I think she set a fine precedent. Even now William and Kate are arguing about sending George to boarding school. Things are changing and The Firm has to keep up. I think the monarchy is pretty much dead, as it should be. They are glorifying a by-gone era. Britain no longer rules a great deal of the world. It needs to get out of all their Commonwealth countries and deal with their own problems, which are a very real concern.
How the UK is going to survive, economically at the very least, without the EU is questionable.