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Reply Wed 17 Aug, 2022 06:31 pm
Hi everyone,
Is this normal? My partner and I have lots of arguments about sex. He feels that I don’t pay him enough attention and that it shows that I don’t care.
Tonight I had a bath and was watching a TV programme and then realised that I need to do some work before tomorrow. He is now very upset with me as I guess he wanted sex. He has told me to sleep downstairs. He gets angry with me if I don’t do what he wants sexually when he wants it. He throws a tantrum and will walk out, throw things, tell me everything that I do that is wrong. It is very upsetting and has led to me not wanting to have sex with him. I feel that I can’t say no but I know that is just making it worse so I am trying to work through it.
I find it really hard though.
Is it ok for me to watch a TV programme? Should I have turned it off and had sex with him whether I wanted to or not?
 
jespah
 
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Reply Wed 17 Aug, 2022 06:41 pm
@Mistycat,
Your partner is showing pretty much every sign that he's going to miss one of these days and hit you with something he throws.

Or with his hands.

  • He is not entitled to your attention 24/7
  • He is not entitled to sex 24/7
  • You are allowed to say no to something that makes you uncomfortable or causes you pain
  • You are allowed to take a night off, or several nights off, without consequences
  • FFS, of course it's okay for you to watch TV
  • This man-child throws a tantrum (your own words) when he doesn't get his way
  • Who the hell gave him the right to tell you where you can sleep? If he wants to sleep separate from you, why the hell isn't he the one getting the couch?
  • Being afraid to say no, and feeling things will only worsen is another sign that this is on the cusp of becoming an abusive relationship if it's not there already
Please, contact friends and/or family, and get out of there before things escalate any further.

You are not a failure or weak for walking away from someone who can and likely will cause you harm. Your self-preservation is neither selfish nor immature.

Please get out before you bring a child into this mess, accidentally or deliberately—or because he insists.
bulmabriefs144
 
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Reply Sat 20 Aug, 2022 10:54 pm
@jespah,
Do not budge from the location.

Let him throw tantrums all he wants, but he doesn't get to tell you where to sleep.
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glitterbag
 
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Reply Sat 20 Aug, 2022 11:41 pm
@jespah,
Can you even imagine offering such selfish endeavors to such a baby????? She needs to dump his needy self....good riddance.
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PoliteMight
 
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Reply Sun 21 Aug, 2022 12:48 pm
@Mistycat,
You study okay. Great. Television is a waste of time, it is a distraction, like bottle-cap collection AKA hobby to do.

What does he do for a living? The whole point of you two being together is to have sex. Just enjoys each others companies. I know women who need sex whenever and wherever they can because that is how busy their lives are. They have boyfriends but when they can get it from somebody nearby they will.

Your basically saying to your spouse. "If you want sex you might as well go bang that wayward girl down the block" or even give him a co-worker name that is really into him so they could get it on.

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TV is death. Usually having it on is an ice-breaker for sex. Your boyfriend is correct we could watch television or whatever rerun whenever. The news is on the internet and so is the weather and many of those shows could be downloaded.

$#@ [email protected]$ television might as well get another job because all your doing is burning your life away, and I would rather spend it humping and pumping then looking at television.

Oh look their goes that gypsie girl with the big breasts. She wants sex. Their goes that musical dance club girl she need sex.

..................................................................................................................................

Right now for me I would enjoy somebody hopping on me, or maybe hopping on them while I am studying or keeping my head wet.

Life is just sex and having a vehicle ( money ) to get from one point to the next. Everything else is just spiritual and philosophical. Mind over matter.

Sex v. school shooter
Sex v. political assassin
Sex v. staring at a wall and marching off to a slave pit

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ex0kFmesJg

That is it. Go to work, make a kid, and drop-dead.

When does the life begins?
Mame
 
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Reply Sun 21 Aug, 2022 12:54 pm
@PoliteMight,
PoliteMight wrote:

The whole point of you two being together is to have sex. Just enjoys each others companies. I know women who need sex whenever and wherever they can because that is how busy their lives are. They have boyfriends but when they can get it from somebody nearby they will.

Your basically saying to your spouse. "If you want sex you might as well go bang that wayward girl down the block" or even give him a co-worker name that is really into him so they could get it on.

Oh look their goes that gypsie girl with the big breasts. She wants sex. Their goes that musical dance club girl she need sex.


There is something seriously wrong with you, PM.
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