My gf has this fetish that I cannot get aroused by.

I am honestly very surprised by this because most men would love this sort of thing...I mean, do you think it's nervousness or having a hard time relaxing? Maybe talk to some male friends of yours about this, because as a female I honestly can't relate much.

I am not sure. For one thing, the mouth feels bigger than the vagina and cannot grip as tightly in comparison. I mean I guessing it's easier to make a vagina tighter by squeezing the legs together, but that is just my guess, where as mouth, there isn't any large amount of muscle to make it tighter compared to legs?

But this is just my guess, and I am no expert. I tried talking to my guy friends about it and they are stumped as it seems that any hole is good enough for orgasm to them perhaps? I'm not sure.

My only other suggestion is to maybe visit a sex shop with your gf and ask the clerk if there are any products that help with this sort of issue. Make this into a fun game. Maybe she just needs to practice more and will get better with time. It might also be that overthinking it and concentrating too much instead of just relaxing and being creative with it can make the experience less enjoyable...? 🤷‍♀️ I don't know.

Gross if I were a scientist. What does she do?

Oh for work? She works in the farming industry. Why?

I am not going to teach you because your suppose to discover things on your own.

1. The penis edges, balls and skin is sensitive in many ways like the chest pecks/nipples.

2. Manhandling her might actually do something for you.

3. A little nibbling, some ice, or even going for the edges of the balls might also do the trick as well.

4. She could put more effort into it via her head movement via your "head"

...... I know

You certainly have a lot of problems with your girlfriends, (a little yucky-pooh to. my ears). So do you still live with your parents at their home and meet the other etudrends

Oh how do I have a lot of problems, and meet the other etudrends, or what do you mean?

etudrends is obviously a typo, I think it was supposed to be "do you still live with your parents and still try to meet their expectations?" Sometimes your overly descriptive unusual sexual predicaments are unsettling.

Oh yes, right now I live with my parents, yes.

I thought it was a typo, but wasn't sure what was meant. I don't mean for the sexual problems to come across as unsettling, I just was wondering, how to please my gf on this fetish of hers, just because I would like to.

I gather she is curious but not very experienced. Instead of just using the motion of moving up and down with her head and tightening more on the lips, maybe encourage her to incorporate more tongue action. For example use whipped cream, chocolate syrup, honey 🍯 etc. to help train her. Or tell her to imagine she is licking a popsicle, or 🍭 or a Tootsie roll of her favorite flavor. Just relax, be creative and have fun with this, over time with practice she will get better.

Good on her if she knows drinking semen at least 1-2 times a week carries a host of health benefits.

Oh okay thank you for the input. So the reason why I cannot get aroused by it enough is that it's her lack of experience, and not a mental block, or something like that on my part, compared to vaginal sex?

Well yeah it could be a combo of different things but I suggest she just uses her tongue more in maybe a rotating motion with vigorous licking instead of just the up and down movement with her lips. I don't know the size of her lips but if she has big/full lips with a lot lip balm that should help too. As far as a possible mental block well just lie back and try to enjoy the sensations instead of concentrating too much on whether you orgasm because that's how it comes more naturally. So yes more aggressive licking, the right amount of pressure and the up and down motions. If it helps watch some porn of a woman giving a man head, maybe that will help you get more aroused and yes if she watches another woman who has a lot of experience that should give her an idea how to give you an extremely satisfying blow job. Hope this helps!

this I cant understand, some have come up with tightness etc, but oral. I can close my lips to suit any penis, I can also use my tongue for extra stimulation, I can glance up and see the expression on his face, plus there is always the chance of a full facial, which seems to be most guys fantasy