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Fri 22 Apr, 2022 11:48 am
I am married for over 25 years and my husband always acted somewhat jealous when I went to the gynae and has to know all the details, he says because he loves me and I'm so hot, so his a bit possessive, but in other situations he is totally different, always wanting me to go out with sexy clothes, short skirts see through panties, and his best is if I ever go out with him with no panties. I am now over 50 and still very fit, but I complained that I thought my labia had gotten a bit large, while on holiday in Cape Town he suprised me and took me to see 3 plastic surgeons who specialise in labiaplasty, they all examined me and took pictures of my labia. When we were back at our hotel and were laughing about the pictures he was so horny and we had wild sex, actually the whole weekend he couldn't get enough of me, I told him that I was suprised that he was ok watching other men taking pics of my labia, he said he had finally matured. Now back to the gynae. I needed a new gynae quite a few years back and he said he had a good recommendation from a friend and I have been seeing this gynae who referred me to another dr for an annual mammogram and breast ultrasound, and I used to go the the gynae once a year, but this dr sees me every 6 months and says its standard at my age, actually I could not believe how thorough he was, at 1st I actually told my husband that I have had never experienced such a long gynae exam, and he convinced me that its probably because now I had a real good doctor, and for 8 years now I thought exactly that. On my last visit I noticed a picture laying on my drs desk while waiting for him and it was a golfing 4 ball and in the picture was my gynae, my boob dr and my husband and one of his friends I know, and when I came out the examination room I noticed the picture was gone. I was suprised and the disappearing picture made me suspicious. Its all come out ow, that they have been golfing buddies for years, and my husband recommended me to his friend, and all the while both doctors knew full well that I was his wife without telling me that they know me. If I tie the bows together, he likes me to wear skimpy clothing, he always insists that I shave neatly down there before a gynae app, saying its his personal pride if we ever bump into my dr in public (ya ha ha his golfing mates) Taking me to have my labia examined and then saying that he loves them and they must stay. I don't think his jealous at all, I think he has a fetish about other men seeing me and examining me. Has anyone got any comments on this, is it normal for men to show their wives off
@Conservative woman,
How very odd, perhaps he needs his eyes examined because he forgets what it looks like. I don't really know. Too bad Hustler isn't on the rack anymore, I remember they always like to answer warped questions. Not that I subscribed, I just remember the jokes about the publication.
Why would any gynaecologist take pictures of it especially since apparently there was nothing wrong? I've never heard of that.
This was a very weird post.
@Conservative woman,
No gynae took pictures, the plastic surgeon took pictures, apparently they do that. If a gynae ever took out a camera I would run a mile, that would not be normal.
@Conservative woman,
I apologise for the long and weird post, I was just trying to explain why I am thinking that my husband has a fetish about other men seeing me naked and hiding things from me for so long. I actually would like to hear have any other wives suspected that there husbands like such things, as my belief is that most men don't want any other eyes on their lady. Am I alone
@Conservative woman,
I am sure there are forums whose members will gleefully engage in such conversations. Every once in a while we get people who want advice about how to cheat on their husbands and wives, or want to know why group sex doesn't interest their prudish spouse or boy/girlfriend. This isn't the first time I've seen someone visit who wants to share unsavory details about their personal lives, so good luck finding a fellowship.....I'm sure you will find someone.
@glitterbag,
glitterbag wrote:
I am sure there are forums whose members will gleefully engage in such conversations.
I agree, and this one isn't it.
@Conservative woman,
Conservative woman wrote: ...explain why I am thinking that my husband has a fetish about other men seeing me naked...
Please explain why either one of you would see a gynecological exam as sexual in any way. These aren't just "other men," these are Medical Practitioners, who have years of education and training. It's baffling to think that these people think, "Hey, gotta hit THAT middle aged vagina!" They see vaginas and breasts all day long and have for YEARS. It's a j-o-b, not a Playboy photo op.
Come on, is this even for real??
@neptuneblue,
I don't think it's real, I think it's just another lonely soul anxious to discuss naughty ideas.
Jeepers. Teenager's stroker fiction. Just never ever gets new. <yawn>
@bobsal u1553115,
No, it never does........................years and years and years and years of the same thinly disguised attempt to talk about what they assume adults are always talking about just hoping to get a hint of what they think might be happening.
@Conservative woman,
The only person with a fetishism is you.
Like like creeping out strangers on the Internet.
I'm dealing with a hangover, no more details please, I don't want to fetch my breakfast up.
@Conservative woman,
Why do you sound so obviously male?
@izzythepush,
Of the Incel sort, totally involuntarily.
@bobsal u1553115,
bobsal u1553115 wrote:
Why do you sound so obviously male?
Oh come now bobsal, you know why (and so does everyone else)