Tue 18 Jan, 2022 04:33 pm
I need to get this off my chest, I just can't seem to forget it or get pass it. It an TMI post so please exit if you not like.
I need reassurance/validation on this please. I don't know if this is me fell for my husband seduction, or he was somewhat forceful.
Sorry for English is my third language.
Me and my husband we together `11 years, married 7 years.
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TMI
TMI below
Something happened a while back, and till this day I still wasn't sure. I know it consensual sex, but then part of me not sure if it because I was so hesitant due to my missed pill therefore I didn't give the first minute initial consent.
I need some reassurance/validate my feelings on this please.
Husband initiated sex, and I did specificly told him that it was not a good time due to my missed pill that month and I didn't want to get pregnant (in all fairness, I did not use the word No).
Well, he went on forcefully suck on my mouth, then to my neck, then he slide down one side of my shirt and forcefully suck on my shoulder repeatedly, repeatedly, he just won’t stop use his mouth. However I did not say the word No or stop.
BUT
what I did was called his name, then I called his name again, my heart was racing for him but deep down I was hesitant I might get pregnant due to my missed pill.
He still won’t stop sucking/kissing, then he went to my breast, then continue his mouth down to my stomach, then his mouth down to my vagina. Then yeah you know, I had consensual sex with him.
Sucking here he was just using his mouth, he never hurt me.
In fall fairness, I did enjoy, really enjoy the sex with him. (sex with him it always been out of this world, he gives me multiple vaginal orgasms after orgasms).
He always the dominant one in sex and I'm the submissive one, so him sucking all over my body it nothing new. At first I was scare of might get pregnant, so I tried to fight it off. But then he continued on and it feels really good so I had consensual sex with him.
I mean I even unbutton his dress shirt, so it can't be forceful (on his side) right? When he on top of me while kissing all over me, he started to unbutton his dress shirt, then I engage I even help him to unbutton it too.
This alone say it wasn't force right? I mean how can it be force if I help unbutton his dress shirt? I guess I wanted sex with him too.
Validate my feeling on this please, he is my husband, I’m just confuse with my feelings on this. And he did this for a whole month of my missed pill, not just a one time thing, so he clearly know what he was doing. I did ask my husband why he did what he did, and he said it because he loves me very much and he crazy about me.
So basically my husband seduce me, I fell for it. I should woman up and take responsibility instead of shift the blame to him right? But for some reason part of me feel that he purposely did what he did to turn me on, persuade? as he knows he really really good in bed and I couldn't find myself to reject him sex.
TMI. Yep. You did warn us. I don't think you missed any details past ... well, that would have be TMI, also.
Do what feels right. That's about all I got. Good luck.
I'm wondering if this is a 16 year old male's fantasy.
@Mame,
Nope. I'm a woman and from East Asia, cultural difference? I would be more than happy to take a picture with me hold a sign with username: stayathomewife2015 write on it and date it, and post it so you know I'm a female.
And do you also want to see my bare pregnant belly pics too?
I didn't want to write in my OP that I got pregnant that month by my husband. Because I want an unbias viewpoint regarding the sex alone. It shi-tty what he did to me, consensual sex is one thing, but brush my feelings aside and purposely got me pregnant (while he fully know I wasn't ready to be a mom) was shi-tty.
@stayathomewife2015,
There were many things you could have done to stop it, but you didn't, so you are 50% responsible. Be accountable for your own actions.
For example, TAKE YOUR PILLS.
@stayathomewife2015,
Your husband is nicer than you so regardless if consent is questionable he would have it
@stayathomewife2015,
Wait. I’ve had a few so maybe I missed it.
What was your complaint again?
@Mame,
Might very well be a horny teenager from India or something
Poor written language
Sexually suggestive etc
Yep it's all clout
@stayathomewife2015,
People like you make me sick
I'm from Africa I'm 35yrs old man I don't have kids I cry every nite to have just maybe just a son or a daughter , people like you make pregnancy look like a disease
I HV suffered abortions 3 times from different women
2 of them are dead years later after aborting my children to be
Don't play with God's gift coz others are in pain for not been able to get kids or pregnancy
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