Pink Lady wrote:u r right. i see my gurl do that with her man . she is all happy and now thinks he just likes her and doesnt want nothin so she just sits on her but now. i dont get it u need 2 b sexy for your man cuz there are gurls out there who willtry to move inon him. then its your fault
so i have to be sexy for my husband at all times, or its my fault he cheats on me???
there is something called mutual respect and respect for marriage. you took vows, and i don't care what physical shape you are in, you need to abide by those. try: for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health.
casanova-instead of putting her down constantly, why not try to be supportive? hey honey, lets go for a walk...hey honey, lets go to the gym (make it all about her). it may go alot further than saying to her, you fat slob get off your ass and be sexy for me (all about you).