jpinMilwaukee wrote:Thinking about another person does not mean a marriage is weak. It merely means a person is human. Thinking about another guy does not consistute cheating. Acting on those thoughts is when somebody becomes a cheater.
If she is with you because you are her friend then I see nothing wrong with that. But if she is with you because she is keeping her options open (which I think she may be doing) then I think she is using you and being untrue to her husband.
That's the whole thing. She told me that she's in love with me, but still loves him, but she said that she hates him because he's not there for her. Very confusing and it's hard to believe that she didn't have sex with him in 2 years and after I told her that we couldn't still do what we were doing I spoke to her about how she could be intimate with someone who she hates and she said that she tryed and she had to stop cause it was horrible.
Now is she telling me all this Im in love and I hate my husband but have to stay in this relationship and try to make it work, just to make me feel better? or can she really store her feelings?
she says that she puts her feelings last and that she wants to see me happy in life. can she really put her feelings for me aside and be my friend because it's the right thing to do cause she's married and cause it's not fair to me?
I'm sorry that I'm blabbing on about this it's just that i remember telling myself that if I ever had the chance to show this girl how much I love her and how I want to be there for her, that I would take the chance, so it's not just any married girl that I met. I would never gotten involved with anybody else that was married. THANKS FOR TALKING TO ME ABOUT THIS AND HELPING ME UNDERSTAND THE THINGS THAT SHE SAYS TO ME.