JUST READ THE SECOND TO LAST POST HELP!!!

Thanks ehbeth!

Hey CL!

Its good to hear things have settled down on the home front. As you've said, you've reached a place in your relationship where things are comfortable, but not exciting. One of the reasons you are more comfortable is that you've learn to give only enough information to his questions to prevent an outburst. There's still a level of trust missing in your relationship. Maybe that's what you see in the ex, a nice guy that you get along with who you can trust?

I don't see anything wrong with hanging out with friends be they new friends, old friends or ex boyfriends who are now friends. If you're open with him about your situation and you enjoy each other's company then why not spend time together? If you find yourself developing deeper feelings for him again then deal with the current bf situation.

I hope you're having a wonderful summer!

Thanks J_B

The way I see it also is that my current boyfriend always says he wants to be friends with me if we ever break up, so therefore he can't get very upset with this friendship....

I am having a great summer actually.... I have had more space to myself and more time with my friends...it has been long awaited for!

How is your summer going??

ya crazy i am also very crazy, your respond to a bold reply like mine was cool, so i see a decent level of maturity, so you "think with your head",something im still learning to do, its hard to see the real deal going on with ya over a couple of post, but ill admmit it sounded like that teenage thing you were talking about, just pray about it and what dosent kill ya makes you stronger right :wink: ,hpoe things get better ,it always gets worst before it gets better, good luck

It's cool RG....ya I know it sounds like a teenage thing... they guys maybe 21 but they can act 16 so don't worry about it .....

I think it can't get any better before it can't get any worse... cuz whenever you say it can't get any worse it does.... so I say it can't get any better and it does!!!

Thanks!!

HEY CRAZY LADY,, whats your horoscope sign.

Aquarius

A QUEER REOUS WELL THAT EXPLAINS IT.

Hmmm... why didn't I see that coming!!

If you truely did take the time to read about my sign then you may grasp somewhat of a concept of where I am coming from....

Any other questions JL??

Well my friend took the liberty of telling my ex that I liked him and I am rather upset about this.... so I had to explain the situation in full to him and set him straight... that I just want to be friends.... that really wasn't cool of her

OK now I wrote this post over a month ago, and being single for more than 2 weeks now, my ex. has confessed that he still has feelings for me and he misses me and he wants to be with me again.... That was Sat. Night.... he was putting his arm around me and kept trying to kiss me and he kept kissing my hand and my forehead.... and holding my hand... but I said I can't kiss him right now, I am not ready for that..... he said that is fine and he will wait and continued to stick my by side the entire night (we were at a party at his house)....

So I leave around 2:30-3:00 a.m. and now everyone else is drunk, including him (he wasn't drunk when he was saying all this)... I leave and him and I were fine and we were gonna figure things out soon because I have feelings for him also and he knows this....

So the next day I get a phone call and I guess he tried to have sex with some girl after I left (he tried to get her in his room and said I wanna have sex with you) but he was so drunk at this point that he passed out literally right after saying that (but I am NOT mad about this, I told him to get laid after I left (I was joking))

So anyways I went over to his house the next night and he acted like a different person, he wouldn't even sit next to me and if he looked at me and we made eye contact he began to look sad..... I didn't call him yesterday and he hasn't called me once...

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? I mean we said we were gonna wait for at least a week before we even thought about being an item of some sort.... but we were gonna talk... I hate men sometimes

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It probably means he felt rejected and isn't dealing with that well.