Roofingguy wrote:definetly sounds like crazy is still crazy for the ex,if you ask me sounds like a dumb teenage thing she obiously is not into her current guy,cuz she keeps thinking of the ex,and the old relationship definetly sounds like aproblem relationship, so eventually theill go back togheter and then break up when problems start again,then togheter than break up,typical teenager.
it is my opinion that she dont even know what she wants?
i think the maturity level has to grow on both sides
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i think shes better off with no boyfriends before she cheats on one or fights with the other one
For starters Yes I may be young(20) but I am quite mature for my age when I need to be... Yes I am into my current boyfriend I love him very much, we have been together for two years... we have a home (apartment) together and he is a big part of my life.... but I have also come to the understanding that our relationship will not last forever.... and I accept that.... he will always be a very big part of my life, he has made an everlasting impact on me... but we are at a stage where we are comfortable with each other... I still love him but I am not in love with him like I used to be.... I want to be able to feel the "butterflies" again.... the spark in the relationship is dying and I don't want it to get so bad that we lose our friendship also..... he's not only my boyfriend, he is one of the best friends that I have....
I will NOT cheat on my current boyfriend for numerous reasons..... I.E. I wouldn't want him to do that to me.... and if in fact I did want to eventually get back with my ex why whould I cheat on my current boyfriend... then the ex would think that I would just do it to him....
I know what I want very much, I want to find that one person I am going to be with the rest of my life with, but I want that person to always make me feel young at heart.. and I know that they are out there..... I want to be successful and by doing so I can't have someone that will bring me down.
This is NOT a dumb teenage thing, I went through that when I was 16.... I don't need the kiddie bullsh*t and the drama....
The old relationship was a slight problem but it was also part of growing up and if some day in the future he can prove to me that he has grown then yes there may be a possibility of me getting back together with him but that wouldn't be for months maybe even years down the road....
My goal in life right is to get where I need to be to keep my stable... then I will worry about the boys!! But I came here to get advice from people that I trust.....
So thank you very much for your input roofingguy but I think that you may have taken my post wrong!!! But it's cool cuz I am Crazy!