Found texts from my boyfriend to another girl

There’s no trust, he’s cheating on you emotionally and you’re going behind his back to check his phone.

And it’s only 7 months.

It really doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship.

You might be able to salvage something, but you need to talk to him honestly.

It's all over but the shouting.

He hasn't "done anything" yet, perhaps, but he will.....

I'm with the others. Why would you be checking his phone? No trust. Why would he be engaging with someone else? I'd be running from that guy.

It's a rare case we all agree. You need to find someone with whom you don't feel the need to check up on (or at least someone who knows how to password protect his phone).

DTMFA

Agreed also.

On a side note, you must have had a reason or an inkling something was up to check his phone - thus the mistrust on your side? Unless you simply do lack trust in general.

And quite honestly 7 months is not that long - better to end now than to get deeper into this relationship.

I would be just upfront - say I did not trust you so I looked at your phone - yep I am wrong for invading your privacy (which you are wrong for doing this) - I see we do not have trust on either side so we should end this.

And why the heck would you want to go away with anyone if you know they are cheating even if it is emotionally and not physically?

There is no excuse for spying on your girlfriend or boyfriend. This is unacceptable behavior in any adults relationship.

I agree - just pointing out that I am guessing she was already distrustful of him.