For months he complained everyday, all day about money when he:
-Is getting government assistance
-Has two major bank account savings for him
-Getting money from me every week
-Getting money from my sister
-Has mortgage paid off
And in the future
-He will get pension money in the next 2 years as he has worked for around 40 years here
-He'll still get assistance from me
He doesn't seem grounded or organised.
Then he says wear and tear in the house when he hasn't pointed it out. Then he says my room needs decorating when we just had it decorating and he is sometimes brutal saying 'I'll finish you off', that too having helped him for many years.
Also I haven't add the petrol and food money.
You haven't seen his attitude, negativity, but I had to go to the doctors and they said if he threatens, call the police.
I told him to calm down otherwise he will ruin my and his life.
Also he spends the much needed money on lottery where that could be put aside for bills.
He also says be clever, clever like others when I have got an excellent track record of working and also studying in the evening. He compared me with someone lazy and doing an Ebay business when it isn't earning that well his own father says and I said I'm far more successful, so I'm meant to be lazy and not earn?
And he doesn't wish to listen to my income on the side.
We cook for him and do all the chores and he tells me he will finish me and he will kick me out even when giving money, add to that petrol money, food and everything else.
There were times it was brutal and he still doesn't wish to listen to my second source of income and he doesn't want me to move out.
He says I should be like other sons, looking after their father, get a women so she can cook for him etc.
And you could read my last post.